A marriage is a partnership IMO, all assets are shared..... earnings should be shared too. If your husband has an ego about the money you earn, you should keep it, save it. whatever.... if he's okay with you paying the bills, then pay them and help him out a bit.
I'm glad my husband doesn't have any issues with me doing whatsoever with** our **money.... as long as we save a portion of it.... I can spend it, send it to his family, my family, give donations, splurge on myself, whatever....
Stumbling upon GS has been such a blessing. I compare my husband with all the guys who post here and I realize what a gem he is. Thank you everyone for making me appreciate my husband more.