I agree with some if the girls here. I doubt any of you partake equally in cleaning, cooking, and raising your kids. That's all womans work. So she has to do all your housework, put up with YOUR famy, and fork over money to you as well?? What gaoon did some of you come from?
dont want to disagree with u...
lekin, look at it from another point of view... what if the guy doesnt quite want a kid right now, but the wifey dearest is adamant that she have one.. so he agrees and they have one... so the wife has pressured him into having a kid.. or more kids...
does the duty not then fall on the woman to help provide for the children? what if the wifey wants to have u know 2+ kids... doesnt work.. and the load goes on the hubby... i know everyone will give u the whole lecture on... "Allah sab detha hai..." but really..... what does the hubby do then?