obviously islamically we are not obligated. But what im saying is, i dont think there is anything wrong if the hubz uses “your” money. I mean, like Sara said, my hubz has no idea how much money i spend on my own fazool kharche.. but as soon as i get something for him, its another story.
khair, yeah, its my choice.. and its because i dont like things kept from me.. hence i dont keep anything from him