I am not too sure If I should even post any thing here. Because of 2 reasons.
1-It could be considered not polite.
2-Hardly some one seems to think seriously about my issues.
Anyway situations is wife is being playful all the time. I know what you thinking, that
“why is this a problem?”
Well some time when we are over at her parents house she makes me behave. She is
very territorial She still think her room is still “her” room. I can not jump on the bed "
don’t break my bed" I can’t walk normally "walk on your toe balls , every one is asleep "
Fine!!
I swear not a word here is lie. When we are at our place she is TOO playful. I mean
puling my shorts down when we are going up the stairs? and she did that on our
drive-way too.
I know it was 3am, but still. Some one could be sleep less in the neighbourhood.
I won’t mind if she do that at her parents place once in a while. There she is dady’s
little girl.
So..perhaps she doesn’t feel comfortable in being ‘playful’ at her parents home, in case someone walks in etc..
lol at territorial…of course she’ll still refer to her old bedroom as “her” room as she has done so for many years…as for jumping on the bed at her parents home…do you seriously want to go through the floor into the living room??
Yah, you don’t mind her pulling down your shorts at her parents home…well maybe her parents/ family do…they probably don’t want to be traumatised!
CM wow. Are you saying it so I can value her. You are such a good
person.
LC You know there is more to that. She starts strange
gymnastic moves at most inapprpriate times and make funny noises
too. But NONE of that can happen at ther parents.
So perhaps you don’t need to be ‘playful’ at her parents home at all ! Especially, if you’re just there on a visit.
I’d sit down and talk to your wife about the “strange gymnastic moves at inappropriate times coupled with the funny noises” bursts out laughing sorry…haha you need to talk to her if its embarassing you.