Its something that seems a bit more frequent nowadays and i fail to understand why…
There was a scandal at my local masjid a year back cos two pakistani couples were found out to have swapped wives whilst on holiday…they dont come there anymore…
I was also watching a god awful hindi film called Fun a Dangerous Obsession…a film which revolves around swapping partners…
It seems to be one of those popular things right now…threesomes fair enough i can see the appeal…a girl gave me a long talk about how she enjoys having more than one man…naturally its extra enjoyment…its not correct but its understandable why people take part in the act…now wife swapping?..
Now wife swapping…whats the appeal?..why would you deal with your friends wife?..and how can you wake up knowing that your best friend has slept with your wife…its just damn weird…you will see these people everyday…i dont know how this cant damage your friendships and relationships…
If you want to sleep around…sleep around…but wife swapping…i genuinely cant see any conceivable benefit from it at all…
Now as for this thread…this has nothing to do with me…so no personal attacks…i was just a bit appalled and confused at that film i saw…
Dunya mei jo burayaan ho rahi hain unko chupana chahye yeh nahi ke mazeed barha charha kar beyaan karo. Waise Allah muaaf rakhe logoon ko aisi ghanaouni harkatoon se.
Khair, i have also heard of a paki couple who did these sickening things.
Well I think it's coz they get bored of each other...I lil vareity...that to with another couple who are comfy with it..sort llike tryin out a different hair dresser...sex has lost the appeal of being an exclusive act...it's like the more the merrier.
firstly, its sick to talk to a girl about having a threesome. I cant believe you so openly discuss things like this. things which are firstly totally haram anyway…and secondly talking about it to just some random girl (i.e. not ur wife) r u Muslim?
what do u mean by “if you want to sleep around…sleep around” what another sick thing to say. why are u encouraging people to do something bad. sleeping around and wife swapping are both as bad as each other. why make one seem ok? and whats the “conceivable” benefit from sleeping around?
I tellya all...these are all lies, lies, lies spread by Prince Charles since he got married to Camilla....guy wud do anything to get another chance....
Impulse…i said tangibly i could see the appeal…the girl has her own lifestyle and was quite open about it…i neither encouraged it nor condoned it…i simply suggested that its understandable why people partake in that…its like drinking its haram but you can come up with reasons why people find drinking appealing…i simply said i have no idea why wife swapping can be appealing…
And as for my sleeping around comment…again i dont see the advantage of wife swapping…you give your wife to someone else…and you have sex with someones wife and you all do this knowingly…i find it hard to grasp…if you are looking for a change…then there are lot easier things to do…like just sleep around…again i didnt encoyrage anything…i just suggested that wife swapping is strange…
And like i said…the lifestyle is not something i have any desire to partake in so why all the little digs at me?..
Yeah it is weird to sleep with ur husband friend. Don't know how some pple can do such these things. Most weird is what you do with ur husband you do it with his friend.