Hey, errm maybe its offtopic, but not really, Mehnaz or saima u can split it if u want..so how is the relationship between a wife and her devars/jeths supposed to be? We always hear abt MIL/SIL/DIL etc etc, but never wit the brother of ur husband.. 
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Respect. Treat em like you would ur own brohters :o
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actually I take that back(considering how i treat my brothers), just treat em with respect.
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treat them with respect and kikc their butt every now and then just to let them know who is the boss :k:
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Is the relationship btwn wife n male in-laws easier than relations between wife n female in laws?
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for me it is much easier talking to my Fil than my mil. I don't have any jaiths or dewar. Sometimes, i wish i did!
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Sara not all fils and bils are the same, who knows how urs will be :o
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How about the realtionships between the husband and his wife's family? How r they usually? r they friendlier (i wud assume so since h doenst have ot live with em)..
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Barfee, I can ask cant I :o Anyway im not afraid of FIL/BIL/ as much as saas 
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Sara not everyones the same, who knows u might end up with a reallly nice saas but ur susra is like a real jerk(Godforbid)
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^^Barfee: apni kaali zabaan andar rakho:o:D
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Barfee u married ?? if not then 
(tum kitnee achee ho) 
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^ almost married 
lol Mahru I was actually trying to make her feel better about her saas 
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sab qismat ki baat hai. i have 2 bhabis and we get along pretty well. my parents don’t live with us but they too are cool with them. no problemos there. they treat bhabis as their daughters and bhabis respect and listen to them just as they listen to their own parents.best option is to be diplomatic and say whatever u have on ur mind rather than to wait and make things worse n complicated by holding it back. i’m sure you’d get nice and loving in-laws. :k:
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Men are usually the non interfering type so that's why we don't hear about evil BIL's :-D
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saas’s are mean 
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Sara she doesnt even have one
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She doesnt? 