I always appreciated your advice here at GS. Lately I have that feeling that my wife is changing.
Not change of heart or any thing. I think she is turning into a man.
Reasons I believe this are bellow.
1-She wants to wrestle.I don’t mind little horse play. But when she is done. She often says its a good “exercise”.
Smart and married people would know what that means. That means she would want to do it often.
I want her to be healthy but I go when I go home I want her to be comforting not ready for a wrestling match.
2-Other day she made that face so I went close. We hugged and stuff. I swear we been together for a long time and I did not do any thing out of our ordinary.
But she pushed me away called me perv and I swear she kicked me.
I mean hello.. You invited me!!
How the hell do I discuss what I feel like? Or her ever changing behaviour keep me feeling out of my
element. I love her and Don’t know what to do.
Don’t wrestle with her. Begrudge her any wrestling, even when she wants it. Say you’re tired, feign a headache, etc. Shift the control from her to you. The messee becomes the messer.
^I was trying to shift the control over to you…hence you’d have the power. But since you missed my point…you deserve the frustration your wife is putting you through.
^That…and I have doubts about whether you even have a wife.
And if you do…I hope she finds out your GS Id and comes across this thread. Is main…cough…tumhara faida hoga…your wife will know about your frustrations and may even try to help you out.
it might be possible that she is upset of something n she is doing these unusual things............. sometimes it happens whn a person is mentaaly upset or something is annoying him,he himself dont understand what he is doing............. i think you should discuss this wth her.........ask her about her change attitude afterall she is ur wife..............
the best solution of every problem is either discussion or ignorance............. either discuss this thing wth ur wife else ignore her................ALL THE BEST
may be it has more to do wid sum psychological disorder or problem than "turning into a man"...talk to her abt it that y she is acting differently...mayb in this way u wil b able to sort out the problem...