Why do some things happen? How do we find the reason for them? i guess we wl never know. And this makes me come back to this one question i have had on my mind for so long now; IF THIS IS NOT DESTINY, WHAT IS IT THEN?
Just watching this show on tv with family members of the victims of last year’s air blue crash :(.
They invited 3-4 families and everyone had such a sad story to tell.
I feel helpless and lost when i hear such stories.
1 son shared how his mom took her ticket out to cancel but didnt, just imagine how a change of mind actually costed her life if you think of it that way. But if it was destined then no matter what she wud have done, she wud have nt made it. Then there were parents of this newly married girl who was off to her honeymoon her parents shared how her marriage happened just like that, there were no plans but everything just felt into place but i wonder what for? just for her to die after 3-4 days? This is really disturbing :(.
All our life we act like such super beings but in the end we don’t have much control over our life :(. Just watching Mehdi Hasson on tv rite now and it makes me wonder, what happened to this shehenshah of music :(. What a talent, what a personality and now look at him poor guy cant even talk Someone who spell magic on everyone with his voice in the end is without one :(.
obviously such tragedies do affect all and sundry. I remember reading a column in a paper the day after the crash and Mr columnist mentioned a couple which was going to Isb for honey moon and mad the hit it was below the belt because I myself was recently back from Isb and the other northern areas with my husband. So obviously we relate ourselves to these events somehow and this does affect us but Zareen thats a part of life, thats how life is. Maybe unreasonable to you and me sometimes; but a bigger plan actually never meant to be comprehended by such plain people like us who havent been able to understand our own selves as yet. How can we than think that this destiny business is so easy and comprehensible for us. Death is a reality, an inevitable one. Calamity, or a natural death when you literally beg for it on bed out of deseases and miseries of old age, it is natural. Sooner or later, every one has got to go back. Go back because there are greater, lovelier people waiting for us out there. we just gotta join them.
Why do some things happen? How do we find the reason for them? i guess we wl never know. And this makes me come back to this one question i have had on my mind for so long now; IF THIS IS NOT DESTINY, WHAT IS IT THEN?
Just watching this show on tv with family members of the victims of last year's air blue crash :(.
They invited 3-4 families and everyone had such a sad story to tell.
I feel helpless and lost when i hear such stories.
1 son shared how his mom took her ticket out to cancel but didnt, just imagine how a change of mind actually costed her life if you think of it that way. But if it was destined then no matter what she wud have done, she wud have nt made it. Then there were parents of this newly married girl who was off to her honeymoon :( her parents shared how her marriage happened just like that, there were no plans but everything just felt into place but i wonder what for? just for her to die after 3-4 days? This is really disturbing :(.
All our life we act like such super beings but in the end we don't have much control over our life :(. Just watching Mehdi Hasson on tv rite now and it makes me wonder, what happened to this shehenshah of music :(. What a talent, what a personality and now look at him poor guy cant even talk :( Someone who spell magic on everyone with his voice in the end is without one :(.
My cousins's husband was amongst the victims of the same crash so I know firsthand how last minute programmes shape our destiny. My cousin's husband was going to Islamabad for his project meeting and there was a confusion between him and his partner about who would be going to Islamabad for that meeting. But it was he who was destined to be a victim in this crash that he went to Islamabad. He and his family planned to shift to their newly constructed house 3 days after the crash day and what actually happened that he was buried on the day he actually planned to shift into the new house.
There was a crash of an Air India flight from Dubai few years ago and I remember the whole family of my brother's colleague became the victim who were actually going to attent to their grandmother's funeral (they were Muslims).
Our actions lead to the outcomes which are in fact what is written in our destiny. If we are not sure about some decisions and end up making a decision in a specific way, the decision and the outcomes are destined the same way. Its only after we know the outcomes that we can talk about the hesitation we were having at the time of decision.
As for WHY? because it is destined to happen that way. It shows there is a Planner above us all, so no matter what we think/want to do, its His way things will work.
It just makes me wonder about the uncertainty of life. What big plans we have when we dont know about the next moment…
Har Ghari Badal Rahi Hai Roop Zindagi
Chaav Hai Kabhi Kabhi Hai Dhoop Zidnagi
Har Pal Yahan
Jee Bhar Jiyo Jo Hai Sama
Kal Ho Na Ho
Har Ghari Badal Raha Hai Roop Zindagi
Chaav Hai Kabhi Kabhi Hai Dhoop Zindagi
Har Pal Yahan
Jee Bhar Jiyo Jo Hai Sama
Kal Ho Na Ho
Chaahe Jo Tumhe Poore Dil Se
Milta Hai Woh Mushkil Se
Aisa Jo Koi Kahin Hai
Bas Wohi Sabse Haseen Hai
Us Haath Ko Tum Thaam Lo
Woh Meherbaan Kal Ho Na Ho
Har Pal Yahan
Jee Bhar Jiyo Jo Hai Sama
Kal Ho Na Ho
Ho… Palkon Ke Leke Saaye
Paas Koi Jo Aaye
Lakh Sambhalo Paagal Dil Ko
Dil Dhadke Hi Jaaye
Par Sochlo Is Pal Hai Jo
Woh Dastaan Kal Ho Na Ho
Har Pal Yahan
Jee Bhar Jiyo Jo Hai Sama
Kal Ho Na Ho
Har Pal Yahan
Jee Bhar Jiyo Jo Hai Sama
Kal Ho Na Ho