WHY!?!

[fat_spartan]

Re: WHY!?!

@BlueBells

Normally ‘the dude’ jokes about it and once I get really riled up, he tries to calm me down by saying something like "you’re my #1,2,3 and 4 rolled up on one perfect package’ or something ridiculously cheesy and cute like that.
But tell me if this is taking it too far. ‘The dude’ is sorta ‘religious’ and was talking about one of his friends from the MSA was was preaching the ‘brothers’ about how they should be doing their part by marrying multiple times because there are a lot of Muslim girls especially in the the West who can’t seem to be getting married and since it is allowed in Islam, if they have the means and wife’s permission of course, they should help those sisters out. I told him if he has started to get any ideas from his fella ‘brother’ he should probably forget about it because by the time we get married (took us two years to convince our families and the engagement happened last month) he will probably not want to go through it all over again. He said I should always say inshallah to that because it is still allowed in Islam and even though he doesn’t want to marry anyone besides me , just because it’s allowed in Islam and we never know about the future I should always say inshallah cuz the possibility might arise and he doesn’t want that either.
I do see his point and it’s not like he said he will ever go for it, but the fact that he is seeing it as a possibility is bothersome.

I don’t think it’s going too far and your reaction to it is funny. I can see why he enjoys it.