Why ?

do we (common) humans not look at others the way we look at ourselves in terms of appreciation.

And

Why do we (common) humans not look at ourselves the way they look at others in terms of criticism.

p.s. I am talking about people like me in present age, not the saints of the past who used to do the opposite of what has been mentioned above.

well i guess it depends on the person ...

some individuals will question themselves before pointing fingers at others ... and well some just dont want to take the blame at all.

I think ppl should take a good look at themselves first before critising others.

it is human nature. Many people dont want to believe that there is something wrong with them. Anyway who wants to say to themseleves that “i am wrong”.
it all comes down to ego.
We like to critic others and enjoy talking about their bad sides. but when it comes down to us, we try to decieve ourseleves by saying that we are not doing anything wrong. when in reality we are not pefect.

i am not talking about all of them (human). i am talking about some people mostly desis.:fatee:
Appreciation is something that is not often done either. Some people just dont want todo it because of jealousy.

These are just my two cents