i am not asking what can be exchanges to meet the needs of others. i am asking why cant she give A,B, C and D to man, and still provide herself a strong financial ground to stand on???
Well gender roles have been ingrained over millennia and its hard to think otherwise for almost the entire populace. Its just natural, that is how men and women are wired. You can't fight science. Generally men are geared towards achievement and women towards emotions. This is hard science.
It's natural and we are genetically wired that way (as GDISA said). Men will always be the breadwinners, and women will always look for security (despite what femi-nazis would claim).
why dont you relocate your lifestyle accordingly to what you earn?
Obviously, if/when I get married, I'm going to have to compromise and adjust to certain things. But why should I go out of my way to seek someone who isn't financially stable? I don't want or need a billionaire. But I do want someone who can provide my possible future children with a comfortable life. The kind of life I've lived.
for women to become billionaire, they need to become cut throat b!tches. they are required to sacrifice the traditional role of a woman, ie wife and a mother, and instead they have to work just as much, if not harder as a CEO of a large corporation who happens to be a man. if they want a man in their life, then he's going to end up being either a boy toy, or an equally busy boyfriend, and their relationship will be one of respect and understanding, not necessarily love. (please read a bunch of other threads on this topic).
if a woman wants to be married, and she wants to be accustomed to a certain lifestyle, then she has to be a gold digger. either that...or she finds a man with some semblance of a job security. because in a situation where both partners want a "wife" then both of them have to come into the marriage with a certain expectations. not saying wife should be stay at home or whatever.
I don't want a rich husband. Really. There was probably a time back when I was a teenager that i was more swooned by someone successful, but the more and more well-off desi men I meet, the more and more I get turned off.
Yeah ok, you can earn a degree, get a nice job, and watch some youtube videos on how to dress well and put gel in your hair, but what teaches you good character? A good upbringing, good parents, maybe some religion thrown in and I'm not talking about your garden variety Islam brother-grow-a-beard-and-raise-your-panchay type Islam, but some actual true spirituality that infuses through your soul....
oh wait.
That's my fantasy super-hero character from my imagination. He is also known as "A Good Person".
Because if a woman provides, a man's balls turn mottled blue, choke, and fall off.
And then he has to wear an apron and wife determines when he has to bend over.
This has been found to be a significant result with a p value of under 0.05 in a randomized controlled trial of 500 Pakistani men. 3/500 died within 24 hours of the gender role reversal, another 4/500 had to be resuscitated in the MICU and 10/500 are now on long-term antipsychotics after the termination of the trial.
Because if a woman provides, a man's balls turn mottled blue, choke, and fall off.
And then he has to wear an apron and wife determines when he has to bend over.
Its mostly unwillingness on the women's part to take complete responsibility that comes with provider role. They want to work, earn, and may be even contribute in the house-hold income but they don't want that title full time.
About your second comment above: Why does one has to order the other, husband or wife? Isn't this exactly the change in attitudes that we are looking for through feminism?
especially the one who are educated? dont they want to earn it themselves and spend it in watever way they want?
or is it really hard for the women to get to the level where most men go, after all most of the billionaires are men.
i personally dont like to take money from my father, and i think if and when i get married it will be really hard for me to use my future husbands money.
ps. kindly write small responses. shukeria
don't you badly want to buy that bag, shoe, jewelery, exotic vacations, classy lifestyle, cars, villas, private schools for kids, Harvard education for kids ...etc..etc..
if you want any of these, you need a rich husband. Please also remember: husband is not an atm machine, use it with caution.
I dont believe that majority of the women want "rich" husband (definition of rich can be highly subjective). All they look for is educated and financially stable man which is not too much to ask.
Ager tumhra claim theek hota tu Forbes top 10 richest must have been married to miss world, miss universe, miss India and so on....
Ager tumhra claim theek hota tu Forbes top 10 richest must have been married to miss world, miss universe, miss India and so on....
The majority are not looking for rich husbands, but you can't deny rich billionaires can score pretty much anyone out of their league. There's no shortage of gold diggers.
The majority are not looking for rich husbands, but you can't deny rich billionaires can score pretty much anyone out of their league. There's no shortage of gold diggers.
off course there always are people who do not align to majority
well its both ways to be honest who doesnt want to go to shopping every day who doesnt want to have hauls of cosmetics or clothigns every one but if ur husband cant afford it what would u doo on top of that if u dont work or cant earn money either. i would say girls u should be standing up on ur own own feet rather than spending all of husbands wages on u but if he s happy to do to urao maza se ok lol
Biologically, men are specialized to be the bread winners, and women to be the child raisers. Also, the income gap in the US is pretty wide. Both these factors make rich men good prospective husbands.
Ahan? So which gene sequence does money making depend upon?
well because they think of thier future and don't want to have a poor lifestyle so that they can't support the children...i don't think alot of women think about the money...but in some cases these days girls go for the guys who are good looking and got money cuz of thier lifestyles cuz of getting the latest dresses, clothes...they'll spend all the husbands money on clothes and expensive things but when it comes to food they are tight with it being cooking daal etc i mean first feed yourself's properly then get expensive clothes...ghar main daal kaho or logo ko show off karo ke main sab kuch afford karsakti hoon etc...don't you hate those type of women? argh i think i know since i have a similar relative that buys the latest trends but when it comes to helping out other people act like they are poor ;/ wtf? i mean it's not even thier money but they act like it is...well i think the woman should have a job whether it is a low paid job or whatever atleast she don't have to rely on her husbands.
