Why women confuse men............. ?

[Maverick_27]

The mysteries of women are something men often find unfathomable. Here are some things about women that guys always fail to understand.

Anniversary obsession

Remembering a first date anniversary is still tolerable. But the ‘first time we had a tiff’, ‘first kiss’ and ‘first time we held hands’ anniversaries aren’t that memorable for men! In fact men wonder why women are so caught up with anniversaries and don’t understand why their girlfriends/wives get so upset when they forget any of these dates.

Figure it out yourself

Men are always supposed to know why women are feeling in a particular way. A twitch of the eyebrow or a change in voice by a few decibels doesn’t help the men in any way to figure out how women are feeling. Women want their male counterparts to understand them without them speaking. But nah…it’s not a woman’s fault really. Men often feel we’re only following what our species has been doing for generations.

Silent treatment

Now this is something that baffles men beyond measure. If they happen to get miffed and do not feel like talking, it’s an offense! But if women dish out the silent treatment for days just because their new shoes weren’t noticed and complimented, men are supposed to a) know what’s going on and b) do everything to ‘make up for it.’

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If you want to have sex, just say so. Don’t play the whole ‘is this how you look at me’ card all the time, because the flip side is, if the boyfriend doesn’t want to sleep with her, a girl thinks he doesn’t find her (attractive) enough!

I do or…I don’t know
If they pop the question a little too soon, men accuse us of getting too close too soon, if they don’t, they’re called commitment phobic. So, sometimes, they’re not sure what to do?

Is it any wonder then, that men don’t understand women?

Mysterious girl| Men’s Room| Relationships| iDiva.com

i think female is more complex creature if u talk about the emotions and sentiments…

beside in my personal opinion **Anniversary obsession **and figure it out urself are the two prime factors that confuse men .

what u say guys!

[latooo]

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agreed upon,

women are complex-D,

they all want their counterparts to be able to understand them and their feelings 24/7,

gosh,

its exhausting,

shu.................

[snazzy]

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yeah it's stupid really. Anniversary stuff? some women just think they're the bees knees and that every moment with them should be a celebration. Yes you give importance to the dates of milestones, but does that mean that the guy doesn't care? no it just means he remembers the moment, not the date.

oh and the reading minds expectation is another impracticality- if you feel a certain way, either say/express it in an obvious way (cry) but if you want him to get something out of every inflection, you're out of luck. if he can't figure it out it doesn't mean that he doesn't care, he just doesn't know. if he can read your emotions, great, but don't expect that he can.

[fairywings85]

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hahah this is so funny LOL

[MIAinVA]

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If you expect your wife to remember your birthday, your mother's/father's birthday, your parents' anniversary, your sibling birthdays, etc. then you are also expected to remember her birthday and your anniversary.

[Mamaof3]

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you know, the best anniversary I ever had with my hubby was our "9-plus". The two of us - both - completely forgot the day of our anniversary! A week later, we went to a wedding and someone asked us how long we were married now and we both stopped to think for a moment, both of our jaws dropped to the floor at the same time and we then broke into a good belly laugh! The next night, we went out for a great steak dinner with the 3 boyz and it was just the best, happiest of times. Being picky about dates, anniversaries of every little thing, getting upset at how large or small the gift is....that shows a bit of a lack in confidence of the relationship I think. Theres bigger things to worry about lol!

[Mehnaz]

@MIAinVA

If you expect your wife to remember your birthday, your mother’s/father’s birthday, your parents’ anniversary, your sibling birthdays, etc. then you are also expected to remember her birthday and your anniversary.

:k:

[MIAinVA]

Mamaof3: Thats cute On our anniversary, my MIL actually calls one day in advance to remind my husband lol so no way will he forget.

[Reha]

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^ That is sooooooooooo sweet Mashallah!!!

[Reha]

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I dont know why but I really really dont want him to forget our anniversary or my birthday. :( Yes, Im one of those girls who wants him to remember every year and plan a surprise. Mein kya karoon...I feel like its my birth right!

Plus I always do that on Sweetest Day and his birthday too!

[snazzy]

If you expect your wife to remember your birthday, your mother's/father's birthday, your parents' anniversary, your sibling birthdays, etc. then you are also expected to remember her birthday and your anniversary.

ahaha that's assuming he expects that. I'm sure he could care less (except his bday maybe) whether you care about the other birthdays/anniversaries of his family. It's usually the mother/sister that will be disappointed that the wife forgot, not the husband. Remembering the wedding anniversary is ok, but like the anniversary of every little thing like the original poster mentioned is too much.

Also, with the expectation of "equal" effort in the celebratory planning- the girl usually does all the little planning things because she wants to, sometimes i feel like the guy does it because he has to.

[lady_lama]

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my dad doesnt remember his own birthday let alone his anniversary!! Once tho he came home with roses for mum when he did and that was an extra special moment for my mum coz it came from his heart... I think the only anniversary id be excited about is my first one after that id b like meh lol its overrated IMO but cute to celebrate :)

[McPendo]

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And i went to fix a computer hoping for a kiss :( lmao should have done my study.

[cricketplaya]

you know, the best anniversary I ever had with my hubby was our "9-plus". The two of us - both - completely forgot the day of our anniversary! A week later, we went to a wedding and someone asked us how long we were married now and we both stopped to think for a moment, both of our jaws dropped to the floor at the same time and we then broke into a good belly laugh! The next night, we went out for a great steak dinner with the 3 boyz and it was just the best, happiest of times. Being picky about dates, anniversaries of every little thing, getting upset at how large or small the gift is....that shows a bit of a lack in confidence of the relationship I think. Theres bigger things to worry about lol!

:)

[zobia]

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...and if they are not picky about dates then they will be labeled as tom boy.

[cricketplaya]

@McPendo

And i went to fix a computer hoping for a kiss :( lmao should have done my study.

LOL

[Maverick_27]

If you expect your wife to remember your birthday, your mother's/father's birthday, your parents' anniversary, your sibling birthdays, etc. then you are also expected to remember her birthday and your anniversary.

ok u wanna say that men have expectations!

but they dont have obsession at least............. lols

[Reha]

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Anniversaries are sweet and should be celebrated!