lets say you’ve been no contact with an ex for several months and it’s their birthday..do you break no contact to wish them happy birthday or just ignore it and move on with life? what if they wished you happy birthday earlier, few weeks after the break up? if you didnt wish them, how would that make ex feel?
ill let you know what i did once i hear what the rest of you would have done 
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there is a reason she is an ex … forget about her/him and move on.
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I wouldn’t break NC to wish them a happy birthday. During the several months of NC, ex could have reached out to make the relationship work if it mattered that much to them…especially in the case where ex was more in the wrong. Wishing a happy birthday is sweet and thoughtful and courteous if it’s a reciprocal wish. But that’s all that it is. It doesn’t reflect a willingness to resume the relationship and to fix it.
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Happy birthday
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^LOL
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I don’t wish anyone happy birthday so I wouldn’t know.
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You are missing a curse word.
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if im not friends with my ex..i usually burn all bridges once done with a relationship. I don’t go wishing around strangers.
some people might. there is NO RULE!
do the wiser thing
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^ Thats the way to do it. Love passionately. Hate Passionately.
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Nope. It’s water under the bridge.
How the ex feels about it should no longer be your concern.
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Muhabbat Ho To Be-Hadh Ho, Jo Nafrat Ho To Be-Payan
Koi Bhi Kaam Kam Karna Mujhay Harghiz Nahi Aata…!!!
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If there’s been no contact and don’t see them in everyday life then no.. if I do sometimes see them or talk and it didn’t end on bad terms then yeah..
If the guy wished you a happy birthday (and didn’t hurt or mistreat you) I think normally it would be the right thing to return the good wishes..
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Yes.. like a psycho 
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Nope, that would be very beta
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this thread reminds me of indian movie “Break kay baad”. As much as i would love to be with Deepika but the movie showed an ultimate douche bag (Imran Khan) who had no self respect.
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Precisely!
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stop watching chick flicks bro
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bro, these are my background movies … I mean I want somnething on which i don’t have to focus while doing my breakfast or doing some intense programming. Plus i could see deepika 
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As someone said..ex is an ex for a reason. So no..no wishes!
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I would if the relatiinship ended on a positive note. You Dont have to be “friends” but what’s the harm in wishing someine who once (not so long ago) meant something!
If she is trying to get over you and you know for a fact that she had a rough patch after the breakup spare her the misery and skip that birthday wish