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May 18, 2010, 7:11am
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Muslim muashrn ki trha her cheez per perda dalney ka riwaj in muashron main khatam hu chuka hai 1934 se [ehly America main bhi ais ahi tha Tlaq buhat Mushkil thi Roosevelt ke daur main tlaq ko asan ker diya giya. Muslim muashrey insani huqooq bilkhusoos BIVION ke silsiley main abhi tak 1400 sal pehly hi kharey hain.
Main tlaq ko koi achi cheez nahikeh rahi magar aik aurat ko zabardasti aik aisey bandey ke sath bandh ker rakhna jis ke sath woh nahi rehna chahti ZULM hai magar ham isey ZULM nahi kar-e-khair samjhtey hain ke aik khandan totney se bach giya ab chahey woh ghareeb aurat zehni aur nafsiati mareez ban jaey.
her aurat apni misal de gi bas mera shohar bhi jata tha dosri aurton ke peechey main ny tu keh diya ja GON kha main tu apney bachey palon gi. Bachey tu pal giey na ab yeh koi nahi daikhta ke mad-e-muqabil main tumhari trha sehney ka hosla hai ya nahi Main ny yahan aik social workers agency ke sath kam na kiay hota tu main bhi aisi hi hoti. Unhon ne interview main yehi poch ka koi aurat tumhin apney halat main lagti hai tu kiya kero gi?? mera jwab tha osey himat dilaon gi apney halat suna ker ke kiya kerna chahey:d woh boli nahi is trha osey lagey ga osey PUSH kiya ja rha hai osey apn afaisla khud kerney dena hai aur bas os ki bat ain sunon ju woh kehti hai chahey TUMHIN GHALAT LAGEY, that she is wrong but OS KI HIMAT BERHAO. main ny eyeh bat palley se bandh li aur kash Muslim community bhi bandh le tu kafion ka bhla hu.
On ki philosophy thi ke kai bar aurtin sirf apna dil halka kerney ko phone kerti hain ham unhin advice kerney lagin tu woh phone bhi nahi kerin gi. yeh kam Advice or advise on ke thera[ist ka hai ham sirf sunain.
**Ab whatever happen to me I believe I have done each and every thing by meself kisi ke mashwron se main ney aisa nahi kiya aur apney halat ko sehney ka hosla hai mujh main.(as I am a divorced woman) After divorce they always says haey haey tlaq na lyti mar deyty hain afsoos ker ker key. koi tuk baney ya na baney. Aurat chup chap zulm sehti rahey tu woh kehty hain ke dekhu bas aik bandey per zulm howa na bachey tu bach giey zamaney ke garm serd se. halankey wohi bachey bery hu ker yeh bhi keh daity hain “PGAL HONEY SE BEHTER THA MAA TLAQ HI LAI LETI” ju lyti hain on ke liey tu zaman pehly hi un ke bachon ke samney unhin bewaquf aur nakam aurat sabit kerney per tulla hota hai. Haey haey tkahat tey bythi si keh ker mujhy yeh bataon jahan aurat ki hysiyat aik londi se bhi kam wahan kais atkht. **
I mean apney halat ki roshni main mia yeh keh sakti hon ke tHmarey han aik aurat ke needs ko nahi samjha jata bas jab tak shohar thuda mar ke ghar se na nikaley woh n anikley. Talaq ki kam shrah main zara dekhu kitni aurton ne tlaq file ki??? yani sirf merd ko haq hai dosri shadi aur tlaq ka aurt ko mazhab ke nam per ya bachon ke wastey bandha jat ahai. Ju huskata hai bahysiyat mushrha qabilelqabool hu behasiyat insan nahi individual ko yahan ayhmiyat hi nahi Allah ka hukam ju howa:D
Agar shadi ka qaim rehan Happiness per hu aur tum sacha servey kero t dykhu gey ke Muslim muashron main 60% se ziada shaidan bagher happiness ke chal rahi hain Chritian muashron main bas unhon ne Chruch ko rad ker diya hai apney roz mara k emuamlat main. Muslim MashaAllah abhi tak Mulla jee ke fatwon per chalty hain Bakhshish khuda ne kerny fatwa mulla ke lyna aoney dil dimagh se nahi chalna:D
i just read the first line cause the sort of roman urdu u wrote is just too much for an average brain to register.i am sure rest of the members are too bypassing your posts.