Why the divorce ratio in christian countries so high!!!!

Why the divorce ratio in christian countries so high as compare to any Muslim country in the world…
too stupid??? making wrong choices far more then Muslims ???

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because they dont like their spouses being Christians :hmmm:

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Muslim muashrn ki trha her cheez per perda dalney ka riwaj in muashron main khatam hu chuka hai 1934 se ehly America main bhi ais ahi tha Tlaq buhat Mushkil thi Roosevelt ke daur main tlaq ko asan ker diya giya. Muslim muashrey insani huqooq bilkhusoos BIVION ke silsiley main abhi tak 1400 sal pehly hi kharey hain.
Main tlaq ko koi achi cheez nahikeh rahi magar aik aurat ko zabardasti aik aisey bandey ke sath bandh ker rakhna jis ke sath woh nahi rehna chahti ZULM hai magar ham isey ZULM nahi kar-e-khair samjhtey hain ke aik khandan totney se bach giya ab chahey woh ghareeb aurat zehni aur nafsiati mareez ban jaey.
her aurat apni misal de gi bas mera shohar bhi jata tha dosri aurton ke peechey main ny tu keh diya ja GON kha main tu apney bachey palon gi. Bachey tu pal giey na ab yeh koi nahi daikhta ke mad-e-muqabil main tumhari trha sehney ka hosla hai ya nahi Main ny yahan aik social workers agency ke sath kam na kiay hota tu main bhi aisi hi hoti. Unhon ne interview main yehi poch ka koi aurat tumhin apney halat main lagti hai tu kiya kero gi?? mera jwab tha osey himat dilaon gi apney halat suna ker ke kiya kerna chahey:d woh boli nahi is trha osey lagey ga osey PUSH kiya ja rha hai osey apn afaisla khud kerney dena hai aur bas os ki bat ain sunon ju woh kehti hai chahey TUMHIN GHALAT LAGEY, that she is wrong but OS KI HIMAT BERHAO. main ny eyeh bat palley se bandh li aur kash Muslim community bhi bandh le tu kafion ka bhla hu.
On ki philosophy thi ke kai bar aurtin sirf apna dil halka kerney ko phone kerti hain ham unhin advice kerney lagin tu woh phone bhi nahi kerin gi. yeh kam Advice or advise on ke theraist ka hai ham sirf sunain.
Ab whatever happen to me I believe I have done each and every thing by meself kisi ke mashwron se main ney aisa nahi kiya aur apney halat ko sehney ka hosla hai mujh main.(as I am a divorced woman) After divorce they always says haey haey tlaq na lyti mar deyty hain afsoos ker ker key. koi tuk baney ya na baney. Aurat chup chap zulm sehti rahey tu woh kehty hain ke dekhu bas aik bandey per zulm howa na bachey tu bach giey zamaney ke garm serd se. halankey wohi bachey bery hu ker yeh bhi keh daity hain "PGAL HONEY SE BEHTER THA MAA TLAQ HI LAI LETI" ju lyti hain on ke liey tu zaman pehly hi un ke bachon ke samney unhin bewaquf aur nakam aurat sabit kerney per tulla hota hai. Haey haey tkahat tey bythi si keh ker mujhy yeh bataon jahan aurat ki hysiyat aik londi se bhi kam wahan kais atkht.
I mean apney halat ki roshni main mia yeh keh sakti hon ke tHmarey han aik aurat ke needs ko nahi samjha jata bas jab tak shohar thuda mar ke ghar se na nikaley woh n anikley. Talaq ki kam shrah main zara dekhu kitni aurton ne tlaq file ki???? yani sirf merd ko haq hai dosri shadi aur tlaq ka aurt ko mazhab ke nam per ya bachon ke wastey bandha jat ahai. Ju huskata hai bahysiyat mushrha qabilelqabool hu behasiyat insan nahi individual ko yahan ayhmiyat hi nahi Allah ka hukam ju howa:D
Agar shadi ka qaim rehan Happiness per hu aur tum sacha servey kero t dykhu gey ke Muslim muashron main 60% se ziada shaidan bagher happiness ke chal rahi hain Chritian muashron main bas unhon ne Chruch ko rad ker diya hai apney roz mara k emuamlat main. Muslim MashaAllah abhi tak Mulla jee ke fatwon per chalty hain Bakhshish khuda ne kerny fatwa mulla ke lyna aoney dil dimagh se nahi chalna:D

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Dukhi mat hona lambey jwab per khulasa yeh hai ke ham main aurat independent hu ker bhi independent nahi. By th eGRACE OF MULLAS ab is ko kamyabi kahu shaid tum magar Islam ke nam per aurat pit rahi hai job bhi kerti hain pasia shohar ke bank main jata hai aur woh os ko pyt'ta aur her sal aik ya do bachey bhi paida kerta hai. Tu bas os ko koi akyla nahi rehney de ga yeh soch ker woh aurat zulm seh rahi hai.
Yeh misal bilkul sachi hai os bandey ne bivi ko tlaq ki dhamki di log beech main pery tu kaha yeh apni tnkhwa mujyhy nahi deti is se kahu mujhy daiy aur jaisy main chaon kharach keron Khandan walon ne faisla diya ok bivi yehi kery. Ab mujhy bataon aurat ki job bhi os ke kam na aai Pkistan main tu???? Kiay yah Islam aur ALLAH k ahukam hai????? Nahi bas aurat ko majbor aur be bas ker key ISLAM ki AfaQIYAT ke dhandora peetna hai aur kuch nahi

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Jimmy would you like a purple pill? I see purple. Or is it violet? ehh

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What a dumb generalization .

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sheeeesh. In Muslim countries, women are many times doomed to their fate. As they become more empowered, educated and able to sustain themselves (ie., earn a living for themselves), the divorce rate will at least equal that of western society.

Clad, you obviously have an issue with western society. Bad experience perhaps?

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Gosh Clad, can you see anything else besides 'faults' in Christians?

Kabhi ghor se apne ap ko dekha hai aur apne faults ko dekha hai? Pehle apne ap ko aur apne mashray ko sahi kar lo, phir dosroon ko criticise karna. Kyun ke hum Muslims bhi bohut achay kaam kar rahay hain aaj kal.

Shukriya.

He wanted to but the mirror he has at home says 'made in usa by a christian' :(

No they just put up with all the bull ****, whereas the generations b4 us in muslim societies have had to put up with awful marriages, as muslim woman have becum more independant and educated you will see that the divorce rate is also rapidly rising in muslim countries!!

I used to also feel morally superior when I first came to Australia - but with maturity, I have noticed 'We' are quite shallow compared to them.

Our society is mired in Rishwatkhori, nepotism, chamchagiri, ghatyaipanti, gundagardi, badmashi, chalaki, chedachadi to girls.

We can feel morally superior - but the fact is Western societies for all their faults, are more disciplined, law respecting society, honest and hard working than us.

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it is the because Jesus nevar merry. Mary Magdalene also kick out by the Paaul's pervase varsion of Injeel/bibble.

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Another troll? :smack:

Nothing to do with religion…so why ask the question?

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Women be shoppin'.

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hahaha!

I thought so too..but quite a lame effort though :hehe:

Adat se majbor:p

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Cristian n Muslim societies' febric of family sytem differs....there are many other reasons involved ...too materialistic approach towards human relation, unwillingness to compromise, lack of committment, no involvment of 3rd body to make the couple go on with the relation successfully, less fear for women to b into financial oproblems after having sepration with their partner, free to make decisions, absense of counceling to resolve conflicts(social and religious values, parents, relatives), change in priorities n so on.....n of course the same factors are becoming a reason of increasing divorce ratio in Muslim society as well...wether it is Muslim society or Christain every approach towards relations that leads to contradict with divine rules, results with an ultimate disaster of the relation.....my weak analysis of both societies makes me to belive that addiction to experiment with relations has been the most drastic fact in Cristain actaully in westren countries...however i may b wrong

Most chriatians are just as less materialists and as much family oriented as most muslims.

its a cultural things and not related to religion, How many ppl in western countries goto church,

Filipinos are christians and the divorce ratio is same like in other asian countries, they can’t get divorce inside philippines but muslim can get

as gay marriages are getting popular, are there any divorce too