Re: Why take joy in hurting others?
jazakallah khairan all my beautiful sisters for giving this needy sister your wise words of wisdom. It really helped me feel better and have a more better attitude of how to handle her. But I wonder, do you (or sis Redvelvet since you speak mainly from a psychological approach), know of websites or articles that I can read about gaining self-esteem. Unfortunately, I can't just look in the mirror and say I'm the best, because I see too many of my flaws, both inward and outward, although people do tell me that I'm pretty, but I never take it seriously since I know that I'm not. But would you happen to know of any good articles that can help combat such thoughts? Your right low self esteem can really spoil relationships, and I don't think its fair to others if I'm always depressed and untrusting towards others just because a few people might think I'm not attractive. Jazakallah again sisters!