Re: why some members?
there are members who hate Islam then there are members who hate Muslims then there are members who hate Pakistan then there are members who hate Pakistaniz ** then there are members who hate females in any given condition (covered or not to b covered this is a big Q) ** n then there are members who gonna hate this thread, n potentially me too.
usually women get uncomfortable with other women after a while.
All other symptoms you mentioned are very typical in ABCD(usa born confused desi)
We(pure desi) are very proud of being pakistani/muslim and we love women a bit too much(with respect).