I was thinking if it is common in people and if it is ok or bad.
I know a lady who is very very picky about what she eat in terms of taste. I know not everyone in desis can cook awesome food. If she goes to a party and doesnt like the taste, she will not eat it. But that food itself is not all tht bad and is normal tasting and others r eating it without complaints. I thought its ok to be picky about the taste of the cooked food. But I was always taught what ever is in front of you if its Halal, dunt do nakhras and just eat it. Food (Rizk) is a great blessing of Allah. Ask those who are dying of hunger.
Today I saw her making comments on the fruits too. Then I realized she has been doing this about fruits too in the past. She didnt like how the grapes tasted and left the rest just like that. I tasted those grapes and they were very sweet and tasty. I am forced to think why do people do this? Why do so many nakhras about food. Its a great blessing of Allah. Ask those who can not eat those.
Its just one of the ‘lady’ behaviour
On a serious note…she probably wants to act ‘superior’…so people tend to belittle many things..including food…just to ‘feel’ superior..
... Sounds someone like me LOL .. nah but i aint that picky .. i eat everything accept most fruits and some veggies thats all.. like i never even ate 1 apple or banana or grape o.. etc in my whole life .. BUT I LUVVVV LUVV oranges, watermelon , and mangossss YUMMY hehe BUT only 3 fruits=( i myself dunnu why i don't like all the other fruits .. i just can't eat it .. like even if my bro was eatin one apple right near me i can smell it and i just walk away ... i don't like it at all .. i tried so many times to like things that i dont .. but i just can't =/
Not eating it is ok, making comments to others is not..
Yes, food is a blessing but it doesn't mean we should eat to excess or if we don't want to just cos it is sitting there in front of us.. When I go to a desi home and I don't want something I just say politely that I can't.. If they insist and won't let it go I might try a little bit but I wouldn't finish it and eat the whole lot..
^ When she comes back from a desi party, she will actually make fun of how the food was. She will make comments and laugh. Im not talking about eating in excess or eating everything tht is available to you. Im just saying... is too bad to make comments.
Nomica is kinda right. She wants to show her superior self by saying..... this food is not according to our taste and we are use to eat ONLY good food. im like OKKKKKK....
