I been left by her, just becuse i was not as good as she wanted her would be life partner. my looks are way too ordinary than she would like to have in her mr-perfect
she s been my very good friend for past 4+ yrs, she claimed to be a very good frend of mine, always with me . but don’t know why she turned me down on this.
what is my fault if GOd made me like this.
if i were so ordinary, y did she come in my life, in first place. she says im way too young looking and also shorter in terms of hieght. im in no way handsome or good looking. just like a teen ager school going kid.
i didn’t ask her to come in my life, y did she try to continue with me just as a so-called friend? i never forced her to be so? many of u would be saying that its not binding on a frend to be ones beloved. true, but wat is this, that im not good looking? i loved her like no one else, i can go to any extent for her.
Then Y is she so ruthless?
if she can’t agree to my proposal, then will it really be a sin if i commit suicide?
if i commit suicide, shouldn’t God forgive me? after all i am getting rid of my life for a valid reason, which has already made my life worse than death.
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a simple girl…(i know u wont agree with me here:D)..ok so i was saying that a simple girl whom you happen to love cant be worth your life…and just as you arent good looking for her and she’s perfect or whatever for you, doesnt mean that’s really the case…yuo may be good looking for some, average for some and yet for others an ugly creep or whatever…it all depends on the individual’s POV, differs form person to person…now here’s a girl who’s judging you for your looks and height and here you are thinking of commiting suicide just because she left you…you think she’s worth it?..but i think she’s not worth a bit of your attention, let alone yr life…see it’s just a difference of opinion…you may have family and other friends or people whom you love and who love you, arent they worth your life too? before she came in to your life, you were living isnt it?
now this is just a bad phase, try making some new friends and stay busy, that will help you to get on with yr life..and NO!, suicide is never an excuse for anything and neither will you be forgiven for it(AllahuAlam) but suicide is a cowardly act, you think you’re worth something(which you def. are) then live your life, do something good..if you have nothing to do then i’d suggest join a community service group and dedicate yr life to a good cause, instead of wasting it by suicide…and you’ve been given this life to live and serve ALLAH(SWT) and not kill yourself for ‘great love’
…she has her own opinion, if she thinks that you arent good looking then respect it, you dont need to feel all bad and grumpy and say she’s ruthless…arent there other peole who you think dont ahve good looks? that doesnt mean you’re bad…you’ll feel like you’ve lost everything but trust me you’ll get over it once you accpet that you are worth something and that in the future you may find someone else wo’d love you for what you are and yr inner beauty:)…good luck:biggthumb: and stop thinking about suicide, no one except Allah ta’ala and your parents are worth your life:hugz:
ps: keep your eyes wide open for a new relation:wink:
Are you serious? Suicide for a girl... Do you watch too many bollywood movies or something? Or did you read Romeo and Juliet more then recommended times? There are people out there starving to death in Africa, Ppl in your own HOME country that are so poor that live on streets, and yet they are still far more grateful then you who's only issue in life is to be dumped by a girl....
Suicide is haraam, and there are no exceptions. So please stop being pathetic.
:k: good advice sa-Nafooz…why anyone would want to throw their life away over such issues is beyond me!
Suicide is never the way out for anything…build up your confidence and stop pining for someone who won’t give you the time of day…they’re not worth it!
man! give good advice and stop criticising him like a school teacher, the poor boy’s suffering, samja kare na:hinna:
how do u know what coutry he is from?
:aliyish:
when such things happen and it’s all fresh people really lose all reasoning, they dont think straight:hinna:…we just have to help them get over it…later on in life, they get embarrassed by this behaviour of theirs or some laugh it off like anything:rotfl:
Suicide is haraam, and there are no exceptions. So please stop being pathetic.
you're going to make a fine doctor...
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^it says location- Lahore..I can't help it when posts like these come up....I have to get all "slap yourself in the face" for such crying over patheticness...
you're going to make a fine doctor...
lol...
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Agree with what you're saying sa-Nafooz...hmmm...being biased here really but I always thought men are stronger than women so would be able to get over this form of rejection! (very naive I know!)
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What’s up with people nowadays?
Agree with what you're saying sa-Nafooz...hmmm...being biased here really but I always thought men are stronger than women so would be able to get over this form of rejection! (very naive I know!)
Yeah I don't really like guys that are that emotional....it makes me wanna be like what did Allah make you a man for if you can't control your emotions.
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suicide for a chick? .. you gotta bi kidding.. :smack: …
dude their are better things to die for then a chick… so move your fulfilly ass and smell the coffee..
suicide is for losers and i hope you will be not be one of them..
but if you still wanna die.. ..here are some ways..
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You are an idiot. It would be better if you didn't reproduce.
Oh yes....Troll.
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hahaha totally agree with you Gulab Jamun 
^ CM, not everyone that posts ‘out of the ordinary’ threads apart from mother in law issues is a troll
You can't commit suicide man! I mean....what if....by some remote chance....she decides to come back to you???? Huh? You won't be around then!
More seriously, why would she enter a relationship with you if she wasn't attracted to you? If she was leading you on...you allowed yourself to be led on. If she was a friend for several years....and dropped you for superficial reasons....she wasn't such a good friend. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Find someone who will find you attractive. And who knows....she may be prettier with a better heart.
Now if you're trolling (the content and style of writing does suggest trolling..although you never know)...get a life (pun fully intended). And if you're in earnest, then you need to put things in perspective before contemplating a permanent solution such a suicide for temporary issues.
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Take a walk and smell the roses. Best advice I ever got from anyone.
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I think its matter of personal choice and you are grownup enough to decide . If you really wana do it , then just go for it . No second thoughts . :k:
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^sensible answer:D