why should you have preference of girl/guy with no past relationships if you had any?

[uzair1]

Re: why should you have preference of girl/guy with no past relationships if you had

@pcormac2013

True. women may be insecure as well about height and job status. I see people from other races in west and they are not so insecure. So why are we so insecure? Why are we harsher on females? If not more past relationships what about same number? She may have been with a rock and now she has found diamond she has realised real value. You can’t really stop anyone fantasising on a colleague or even celebrity even if they’ve had no relationships. Shouldn’t we think she had experience in past none who were good enough but then she found me rather then thinking she’s settling with me because of age or no other rishtas. Women who have had experiences like divorced may in some ways be better than those who have not as well as vice versa

Every society is harsher on females in this regard, not just us. Like I said its because the dynamics are different for men and women.
People (men) in west who are not insecure are usually the ones who have had plenty of past experiences of their own. That or they have bought into politically correct feminist garbage.