Re: why should we adjust?
Sometimes you so make it sound like as if you married the wrong person, and its sad because you had the full say in your marriage.
I suggest you to read biography of Jemima Khan, an Anglo-Jewish girl, a billionaire heiress who was literally raised as a Royalty in Britain left everything behind and lived with Imran’s parents in Islamabad as a Muslim woman and a traditional wife/DIL/mother.
She mentions something very interesting in her biography she says (paraphrasing of course) that when I look back at my life in Pakistan, I say to myself God, how I did I manage all that but when I think of Imran, it all perfectly falls into a place. And if it wasn’t for Imran’s political career and all the extraordinary events that came with it they still would’ve been marraied today (he himself says it)
I think you really need to decide whether you really have the dedication, respect and hope in your husband to find peace within the union, because lets face it, you are not being betrayed here…you knew the realities from day one! This is just a simple following of the script that signed yourself, you are seriously not the victim you want people to think you are.
hmmm good idea. Now if only i can find the book in this damn place, i doubt it. How long did she stay in pak for? but im sure she was leading a billionaire lifestyle here as well, yes with its restrictions, however the rich have it all here, the rich and powerfulm and she was that.