Why should any guy be interested in a desi muslim girl ..

Yet again Waqas, everything you have stated applies equally to desi men. Don't just bash women. Look around at the actions of those naik and sharif Pakistani boys around you.

I'm not just bashing women I'm bashing the guys too!

I'm all about being fair! lol

Nah! I have no complaints. I have a great life
and some really wonderful friends! :)

It just kinda took me by surprise and saddens me a little that I should even have these concerns.

I guess we've all had our fair share of BS and I shouldn't let past negative experiences stop me from being happy.

yup

Waqas, your threads are the best... you seem to voice, and confirm, my concerns as well. But hold on, there is hope... after all there are many happy marraiges that spring out of such set ups. All about compatibilty and chemistry, and the material stuf (education, career, family)....

The way things work, parents look for the material qulaities, while the suitors are looking for the former.... it would be nice if the parents found someone meeting their criteria, passing the lead to you, and then you finding chemistry with that person... so far, most ladies make it through round 1, and collapse in the second round.

cuz we're hot ..