Dear Readers,
Assalam aley kem,
When ever I listen to our moullanas I have seen that they do BARESH of Aayat, and also Ahadeez. Ofcourse they read all these in arabic first, which some times confuses me whether it was Qurani Aayats’ references? If yes why did not I see them ever in Quran? I asked once a question with one sheik by E-mail that where is that Aayat ,you had quoted.? He replied it was from AHADEZ.
Any way coming to the topic;
Quran says you can marry upto four provided you can do justice between them.
Now all our moullana would not read the AAYAT ahead because -----;
perhaps they are busy marrying, and justifying. I do not know how many?
They have a safe side to convince themselves that Saudis (Their Moullas in Saudia do have harrams also,) so GOD WOULD QUESTION THEM IF having many wives is wrong , they are safe , knowingly they deceive themselves; they shed all the responsibility on others.
BUT BUT ----WHY?—They would not read, the same aayats’s ahead (lines in sequence) , why they read partial (a FEW OF THEIR MATLAB) not full AAYAT in which next few lines say GOD SAYS"which (JUSTICE BETWEEN WIVES) you can not do"
When our moullana reach to this line desaster happens GOD SAYS YOU CAN NOT DO JUSTICE,; so can they marry four , how to prove that 4 marriages are allowed?
So either they start doing research on Grammar of this AAYAT or they say that this is about justice of money and we can do justice between four wives.
Here they commit SIN (GONAHE KABERA) that they do not have 100% believe or Eman in GoD’S words that they are true.
This is the path to jahannam. Not believing or having faith in one AAYATE QURANI (is same as not having Eman on whole Quran) and trying to do research in order to get their explaination the way it pleases them.
So my argument is that God has allowed TALAQ and has limitations and also he said this is the act which is hallal but he does not like it.
Same way he has allowed (made hallal) to marry upto four, but he really does not want to approve it as if it is a GOOD DEED TO MARRY four. Any one who would marry four would not be able to do justice and would also contribute sins in his ----JOHLEI—
It means it is allowed in case some one is either too much ----and can be cause of bringing illegitimate kids in the world or it is for those who are going to commit sins after sins so better marry and do a little wrong for a great good (to save from SIN E KABBIR). Please comment from your personal knowledge , personal intelligence , do not use borrowed intelligence from old -----Thanks regard Sokoon