Why people stereotype to other communities?

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Re: Why people stereotype to other communities?

lol i was wondering the same :hehe:

:nahi:

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Re: Why people stereotype to other communities?

eik to aap logon ka sense of humor bilkul hee kharaab hai

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Re: Why people stereotype to other communities?

yeh abhi tak nanay munnay say bachay hain.

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Re: Why people stereotype to other communities?

this is something we make a deal out of. ethnics and castes and sects and blah. it is sad we still care for such stupid differences.

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Re: Why people stereotype to other communities?

They say.. ap tau dekhne main bilkul urdu speaking lagte hain :open_mouth:

May be urdu speaking are more like caring for manners, adaab, tehzeeb, pehle ap pehle ap, Lijiay dijiyay etc. My mom in her initial days of marriage asked my taya, bhai jan CHAI lijiay.. he said, yahan aise nahi bolte, yahan kehte hain: bhai jan chai lein, no lijiay dijiay :stuck_out_tongue: Its more like Ley phar :smiley:

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Re: Why people stereotype to other communities?

I just look human :smiley:

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Re: Why people stereotype to other communities?

correct. it is all about manners and sweetness of language.

ab aainda kabhi punjabi family ko manners na dekhana.
aur urdu family ko ley phar na kahna.

matlab yeh kay jaisa dess waisa bhais.

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Re: Why people stereotype to other communities?

But I like the openness and frankess of punjabis. They are just sooo full of life, full of hulla gulla etc.

I guess I am lucky that I have both the traits. Urdu speaking + Punjabi :) But the society is not accepting me as I am :D

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Re: Why people stereotype to other communities?

In my opinion, you have more chances from both worlds and will get your significant other.

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Lets see.. But until now, this has been proved to be a disadvantage. Like I do not belong to a particular community :(

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Re: Why people stereotype to other communities?

I have seen many examples, where couples are from different communities.

  • Punjabi and Gujrati
  • Urdu Speaking and Memon
  • Punjabi and Memom
  • Punjabi and Pathan
  • Urdu speaing and Punjabi

You can see each spouse is compatible with punjabies.

You supposed to think like punjabi.

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Re: Why people stereotype to other communities?

Yeah I know. I am dying to marry a punjabi and then become a FULL punjabi :)

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Re: Why people stereotype to other communities?

Loll will definitely try the trick :D

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Re: Why people stereotype to other communities?

I was wondering the same thing.

To be honest…I am not sure…what is so offensive about being tan??? :hehe:…do you know how big the tanning business is?

For Urdu speaking families, they find the frankness and openness to be a bit rude. Thats why they dont get along.

I have to say though…in the rishta process…most Punjabis I have met dont like speaking it.

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Re: Why people stereotype to other communities?

I repeat for all of you.

They say.. ap tau dekhne main bilkul urdu speaking lagte hain :open_mouth:

May be urdu speaking are more like caring for manners, adaab, tehzeeb, pehle ap pehle ap, Lijiay dijiyay etc. My mom in her initial days of marriage asked my taya, bhai jan CHAI lijiay.. he said, yahan aise nahi bolte, yahan kehte hain: bhai jan chai lein, no lijiay dijiay :stuck_out_tongue: Its more like Ley phar :smiley:

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Re: Why people stereotype to other communities?

Im from Karachi :snooty:

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this is one example

i wonder if anyone can score more than this :slight_smile:

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Re: Why people stereotype to other communities?

@hanibal: tum nay to meri subah hi kharab kardi. iss ki pic ko yahan say hathao.

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Re: Why people stereotype to other communities?

Stereotypes can result from a negative experience that one has with a person from a particular group/culture......and then everyone from that culture gets lumped under the same generalization. They can result from notions/views passed on by family....that haven't been challenged......and they might even result from jealousy/insecurity.......for example you come across several people of one group that are successful....and you try "rationalize" their success in a negative way. For example, all ____________ are wealthy because they're stingy, etc.

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Re: Why people stereotype to other communities?

Ewwwww… no, urdu speakings do not look like this :frowning: He just represents some particular community to which none of us can belong. All the politicians belong to that community :stuck_out_tongue: