Why Paki girls don't take matters into their own hand?

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Re: Why Paki girls don’t take matters into their own hand?

@Omer259

One of the big problems for Pakistani girls living in the west (US/UK/Canada) is the lack of marriage opportunities that they face. The boys are either going back home or marrying non-desi girls there. For the girls, one of their greatest fears, unrealistic as it maybe but understandable, is getting married in an arranged scenario with a boy raised in Pakistan, who they have nothing in common with. I don’t understand that if the option of importing a boy from Pakistan is not acceptable, then why do these girls not take matters into their own hands, and find a Pakistani guy who lives in the west. That way, they could avoid having their parents fix them up. If they like a guy, then they should make the first move. I have personally seen a few cases, where girls were too scared or shy to express their love for a guy, who was clueless about their intentions and ended up marrying a girl from Pakistan, thus breaking their hearts.

I don’t think it’s that simple buddy, for most parents who do even consider a paki boy from back home to marry their daughter off to with little or no consent from their daughter really won’t be all that co-operative with their daughters if she brought home a guy of her own choice.

However, I agree that if their parents are resorting to a potential from back home as a last stance on things then the daughter should have enough balls to speak up.

I think in that aspect, I’m blessed with a rebellious streak in me

Also, don’t forget the typical caste/family marriages…the emotional blackmail…being shunned because you chose to love someone…hawww hayee