this is a tough thread, for me to post as i am a rather shy and conservative young lady.
but, guys, girls, help me out here.
look at the situation below.
when ever people mingle at night, gossip and fears of physical relations come about… so u go to a late night party and see that ur family worries, u are with someone…
where as, perfectly if u wanted to, u could use the day time to demoralize urself.
the issue is the doubts that are unfounded and untrue. unless, we do a reality check about our PERCEIVED fears of the night time, being the being-naughty time or expressive time in intimacies, how can one decent self respecting person, put the accusers or nosy slanderous people in their place?
Re: why only NIght is romanticized, why not day time?
The best thing in such cases is go to sleep at night.
Naa night ho gee, naa maslaY pedaa hoN geY.. you see, yeh saaraa Night ko ullu kee tarah jaagnaY aur day ko sonaY kaa nateejaa hai…
yeh bhee ho saktaa hai kaY iss kee wajah-e-tasmia sub bud-hazmi ho:konfused: raat ko kamm khaanaa khaanaa chaahiye, phir raat bhar neend maiN PariyaaN lori deti haiN
Re: why only NIght is romanticized, why not day time?
romantiscim is the phase developed by a mind . cared by the heart and brought forward by thesoul . its the night time when all the three happen to slow down and refuse to engage in other activities . so when everything finishes up . the three merge together to romanticize .
this can also happen during day time. but in rare cases :mytheory of nature:
Re: why only NIght is romanticized, why not day time?
Dushwari ap chahte kia hai ?
koi aishaq vishaq ka chaker to nahi hai ..I hop its not somthing lik that ..ka
App kisi se keh na chah rahe hooon or keh na paa rahi hoon …ka
Ap ki manzil hoon mai meri manzil ap hai ,
kiyo mai toofaan see daro mera sahil app hai:hehe:
koi toofaaanoo se keh dai mil giya sahil mugheee :smilestar:
Dil ke aa darken ...............................
Re: why only NIght is romanticized, why not day time?
Gossips and Fears ..... hmmmmm ........... Tell me one thing. What is the time you wud consider more romantic? Yes you are right, one can demoralize in the day light too, but wud they do it out on the street, in a restaurant or inside in a room, out of public sight?
What happens when you dim the light a bit at night, alone or in a gathering? When it is dark, less chances of being seen or confronting people eye to eye, people loosen up more. You wud not get up and dance in a gathering with full bright lights, but if the lights are dimmed, you would feel comfortable, it creates a "Mahol" and there you go .......... This is the basic philosophy behind doing things differently in the light or darkness.
From an Islamic perspective, I heard that evils are let loose after dark. I personally think that's to some extnet a sybol of what I just siad above, that darkness loosen up your inhibitions. Secondly definitely Shaitaan is on the move. Parents worry for girls being late for probably some of the above reasons but mainly bcoz, "logg kia kahenge".
You probably won't find a candle light lunch romantic but a dinner, yes. Baqi, dil ka mausam acha ho to saray mausam achay hein ;)
Re: why only NIght is romanticized, why not day time?
^ dil a mausam ;) ;)
Romance should not ask for time ;) it should be anywhere at any time ;). Just dont go crazy on street. there is such thing as romance with words with your AHEM.
;)
ap chahte kia hai 
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