Why now???

Fizzy, just an FYI...I do know what you mean.

And no, Im not a flirtatious type of gal at all. Meaning, I dont go out of my way to keep in touch with guy friends or even hang out with them. However, it seems like once you are taken, people want you more. Im saying this because it happened to me when I started to get to know my fiance. Its wierd and I always thought to myself - "why now?". I think its Allah swt's way of testing us.