k girls
i just got this crazy idea to make this group.
well i wanted to know
why is it that girls get hit on more after they are married then before,
im not sure if this applies to all
but i noticed
that before i was married i did not get hit on that much
but after i got married allot of ppl just started to hit on me or
some ppl from my past started tell me how they really liked,
its weird. but why is that
why is that guys are more attracted to take girls that are taken.
i mean even if you are not married. but your in a relationship
ye me too - don't understand why it's happening to you
(Actually for me it was the other way - many interested prospective before marriage. After marriage usually guys respect your decision and the choice you made, and move forward with their lives).
k girls
i just got this crazy idea to make this group.
well i wanted to know
why is it that girls get hit on more after they are married then before,
im not sure if this applies to all
but i noticed
that before i was married i did not get hit on that much
but after i got married allot of ppl just started to hit on me or
some ppl from my past started tell me how they really liked,
its weird. but why is that
why is that guys are more attracted to take girls that are taken.
i mean even if you are not married. but your in a relationship
does anyone else see that to or is it just me..
Interesting.
Reasons may be:
1- They feel they missed the boat. And now realize what they missed.
2-They want to see if you ever were interested in the past and now can open up.
3- They feel its OK now to show their interest since they did not want to make commitment in the first place and now the girl is attached so no problem telling. Sort of more open relation in their minds.
4- Girl is now more independant and some guys like independant woman with some money to spend on her own.
5- More make up on the girl now with mature clothings and perhap naturally more glowing face?
6- If affair starts no real baggage will be there. (Bad)
7- They may hit on woman more if she somehow complains about her marriage life and how stupid was her decision to mary her husband.
8- Girl just feels she still should be considered attractive so any good comment from someone is taken as a 'hit'!:)
(Please don't throw 'chappal' at me now)
8- Girls just feels she still should be considered attractive so any good comment from someone is taken as a 'hit'!:)
(Please don't throw 'chappal' at me now)
lol - That's true some girls have this attitude that they MUST show others that they are still being sought after - it keeps them feeling "wanted".
This "wanted" feeling usually dominates once a person realizes that their marriage is dull and they are still "looking" within their hearts.
Fizzy: The above comment is not intended for you... how long have you been married since?
k girls
i just got this crazy idea to make this group.
well i wanted to know
why is it that girls get hit on more after they are married then before,
im not sure if this applies to all
but i noticed
that before i was married i did not get hit on that much
but after i got married allot of ppl just started to hit on me or
some ppl from my past started tell me how they really liked,
its weird. but why is that
why is that guys are more attracted to take girls that are taken.
i mean even if you are not married. but your in a relationship
does anyone else see that to or is it just me..
Fizzy, just an FYI...I do know what you mean.
And no, Im not a flirtatious type of gal at all. Meaning, I dont go out of my way to keep in touch with guy friends or even hang out with them. However, it seems like once you are taken, people want you more. Im saying this because it happened to me when I started to get to know my fiance. Its wierd and I always thought to myself - "why now?". I think its Allah swt's way of testing us.
^^ I agree with above, it does happen when one is in a relationship. I think what happens (Atleast with guys) is that when u r seen with someone often, you give an impression that you are a responsible (maturity level) or stable person (money wise) personand thats what attracts attention and makes other people (male or female) take notice of you
what i mean is that some girls that i know and i few time myself
notice that guys find girls more attracted when they are taken
i do not know why.
me im married for 5 years now Mashallash
and im happy with my marriage and before marriage
i did not date or anything. and did not have much guy friends
just the normal in school hi and bye thing with classmates.
but some of my girlfriends are in a relationship
and now they are getting more guys that are interested in them now.
thats all and wanted to know if others feel the same meaning they notice it to.
Whats the big deal if they are only in a relationship and getting others (more guys) interested?
Its not like they are taken permanently or married.
Unattached girls roaming around freely will get hit multiple times.
( Reminds me a joke:
A man was walking on the street.
He was reading a newspaper. Suddenly he was hit by someone.
He said; “Maaf Kijiega” (Sorry)
When he lowered his newspaper, he felt embarrassed that it was actually a cow!
He proceeded. Again he hit someone while walking and reading newspaper and out of desperation said; “Khuli Chor Rakkhi Hain Sarak Per”.
(Why they have left them open?)
Again he was embarrassed when he lowered his newspaper and actually saw a woman who he had hit on the street)
Got it?
Anyhow, your first post mentioned about girl getting hit after getting married and even you noticed it after being married.
But,
This post suggests you are talking about some of your ‘girlfriends’ being in a relationship and getting hit.
I think she is just curious about why it happens that men find women more attractive once they are in a relationship.
Not what was posted in first post.
Either way the answer would be same or similar. Except that 'relationship' does not mean anything for a lot of people and they feel it is still possible to hit the girl and nothing wrong in their minds.
The girl can and does the same thing so what's the problem?
If she finds someone better , will she not persue that as long as she is in just 'relationship' and the guy also is potentially available?
wondering whether this has something to do with a girl's character/reputation/morality etc or not ? mean to say whethr guys are attracted to those girls(now in relationship) who had and still have good reputation or all the girls?? just curious !!
Either way the answer would be same or similar. Except that 'relationship' does not mean anything for a lot of people and they feel it is still possible to hit the girl and nothing wrong in their minds.
The girl can and does the same thing so what's the problem?
If she finds someone better , will she not persue that as long as she is in just 'relationship' and the guy also is potentially available?
I guess I feel differently about this. I feel if you're in a relationship...you're off the market. I wouldnt pursue someone if I was in a relationship.
I guess I feel differently about this. I feel if you're in a relationship...you're off the market. I wouldnt pursue someone if I was in a relationship.
Absolutely. One should respect 'relationship'.
But we know 'relationships ' are different than actually being married. Thats all.:)
