Why now???

Interesting.

Reasons may be:

1- They feel they missed the boat. And now realize what they missed.

2-They want to see if you ever were interested in the past and now can open up.

3- They feel its OK now to show their interest since they did not want to make commitment in the first place and now the girl is attached so no problem telling. Sort of more open relation in their minds.

4- Girl is now more independant and some guys like independant woman with some money to spend on her own.

5- More make up on the girl now with mature clothings and perhap naturally more glowing face?

6- If affair starts no real baggage will be there. (Bad)

7- They may hit on woman more if she somehow complains about her marriage life and how stupid was her decision to mary her husband.

8- Girl just feels she still should be considered attractive so any good comment from someone is taken as a 'hit'!:)
(Please don't throw 'chappal' at me now)