Why cannot men say it at the right time … I was watching a movie the other day in which a guy falls in love with a beautiful gurl . the gurl gets propsed by the duke of her time.
She merely begs her lover to accept her as wife . but he refuses. giving her strange explanations such as he is only a warrior .
when the gurl gets married to the duke , he gets attracted to her again and ruins her married life.
I also saw a PTV drama long time back > It was from some famous writer . in that too , the boy keeps silent when the girl tells him about her proposal and does not say anything . finally she gets married to another man .
I have seen this happen in different circles.
But watching that movie made me wonder what is it that makes a man hesitatant at the right time ?
Is it their inferiority complex of not being equivalent in status to the other guy ,
or is it their self superiority complex that the girl was first in love with them and they do not need to bother over it . thinking they may get any girl like her anytime .
Or is dishonesty a trait of every man
From what I've seen, men are the most literal creatures. They say what they think they mean whether it hurts or not and they get surprised when it does hurt lol....(Heck, you asked me what I think, I TOLD you and now I"m in TROUBLE??") They are from another plain yeah? But something I've also noticed is that men are so very much more loyal and trusting than women are. And so much more easily hurt. Not by the small things like anger fueled comments but by the bigger things. You get caught lying to a guy just ONCE and he will never forget it. Guys are really (in general) very upstanding and honorable people who expect the same in return.
^ Mamaof3: i have learnt men are very naiive and also insecure about many things of a gurl . they may say what they mean , they may hurt the other person , but they also get lost/misled easily. another thing i feel sometimes they are very secretive thinking their daily life will not get affected by an ordinary girl.
a gurl may not be lying but they often misjudge and assume things on their own .
From what I've seen, men are the most literal creatures. They say what they think they mean whether it hurts or not and they get surprised when it does hurt lol....(Heck, you asked me what I think, I TOLD you and now I"m in TROUBLE??") They are from another plain yeah? But something I've also noticed is that men are so very much more loyal and trusting than women are. And so much more easily hurt. Not by the small things like anger fueled comments but by the bigger things. You get caught lying to a guy just ONCE and he will never forget it. Guys are really (in general) very upstanding and honorable people who expect the same in return.
i was discussing with my kid brother that "do you respect other gals", so he said yes and while elaborating on this...he also told me that how when some guy likes some gal, instead of revealing it to her he gonna discuss her and her friends with his friends.
he said it that it is really inappropriate...so i guess they dont discuss good things then
too many expectations...women forget men are human as well. I don't know men you mentioned, never hear, only seen in those fasool movies...
larki ke paas subaan naheen hai? you fight for your rights, you want rights, you open womens rights organizations and then when the day comes to stand up and speak you keep quite and leave it all to the poor guy jiska shahid galla katjaye!?
Aacha, aapne pyar ke liye galla katwaale? Wow...
Why do you want rights then?
Why you want equality if you wanna leave it to us in the end of the day? To solve every issue, to do this and that, to blablabla...wth?wtf? Sometimes even our hands are tied and deep inside we feel very very sorry and we have a guilty conscience you don't wanna know about...
do men think that much ?
