Why me?

[Decent_6Chora]

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@ninja_hattori

Chai pine ke bad yeh cup kam se kam kitchen me zaroor rakh ayiye bhai........:D

aab tu yaheen choroon ga end-table per takey kal tak cup main wo ring ban jayee jis sai begum ko sakht chir hai :D

[chips6]

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This should have been discussed before marriage.

(The lesson I have learned from life 1).

[akmoti]

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^true!
all those who r getting married....nikah nama mai likh lain

[Agirl90]

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You are their mother, you should be training them. (okay, husband you cannot train) but your kids you can. They don't pick up after them because you DON'T ask them to? Or you should tell them that YOU won't pick up their toys, or you won't buy them anymore if they don't take care of them and put them in their place.

If you keep doing their job yourself, they won't do it.

[automne77]

^phir koi nikah naheen karey gaa

[hareem01]

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made all of them do loads of work today.

[mirage]

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^ :k:

On a serious note, Hareem, just as someone said you should train your boys about it, have a talk about it with their dad too. Daughters always get their essential training from their moms and when it comes to the sons, I guess their fathers can deal them better. Cleanliness and sense of responsibility should be inculcated in boys as much as it is inculcated commonly in daughters. Its a part of their own essential gentleman training.

[TS]

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@Chicken_Biryani

X2’s plan can work in normal situations .. I have tried that in my home and this is what i have found : stacks and stacks of bags lying in the corner of the room and the pile getting bigger with each passing month

Ultimately it comes down to me clearing that up too and then listen to the daant as well and the famous line "sub reciepts hila diye hai bi "

That’s a realistic scenario.

@Decent_6Chora

Yeah I have a perfectionist at home too

I mean cmon ager main cricket shoes pehen ker ghar main aa gaya tu kia ho gaya?

If I have a some documents sitting on my work table (in my home office), leave those document alone. Go cleanup rest of the house

Leave my things ALONE will ya !!!
If you don’t leave my things alone, I will start hiding random things that belong to you.
If you are gonna move my things, I better know exactly where you moved them or I am calling you at work and yelling so that your co-workers can hear me through the phone.
This is a home, da*g it ! Not a frikkin’ department store show-room. Where’s my water ?

@chips6

This should have been discussed before marriage.

(The lesson I have learned from life 1).

LOL.

@akmoti

^true!
all those who r getting married…nikah nama mai likh lain

Bilkul theek !

@automne77

^phir koi nikah naheen karey gaa

Ye bhi sahih hai.

[TS]

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Psyah ? Where are you hiding ?

Please get your act together.

Or pay us fees for counseling provided to your wife, you slob.

[hareem01]

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TS bhai, please don't fuel it. A lot of women are in the same boat as me so it's kinda comforting to know.

[TS]

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[Twinklestar]

Why me?

Learned the hard way but training of hubby and kids starts from day one. Keep at it until they too cannot live with the mess. It definitely gets harder and impossible with time and age. Before kids it's easy to clean hubby's mess in small apt. But when there are kids and bigger house and increasing responsibilities it becomes virtually impossible. I learned from some friends who praise their hubbies for doing work even if it was not up to your perfectionist standards. That's where I messed up. I needed things done the right way- so couldn't stand having hubby doing things . Now he doesn't bother at all. I am overwhelmed and I need a couple of maids.

[Nancy_Drew]

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@hareem01

Why do I find myself always cleaning and tidying up the mess of my husband and kids?

They just won't put the things back in their place, except my eldest. They won't put their plates in the kitchen without me telling them. They throw their clothes everywhere on the floor. **My husband gets annoyed if I tell him to put his rubbish right away into the bin (like ear buds) but next day I'll find them under a sofa etc. He has boxes full of clutter sitting in the living room and I'm not allowed to move them. **No one helps me washing dishes although my husband helps with cooking but creates a lot of mess in the process.

I feel I'm alone into this...now I have other responsibilities too like dropping or picking up my kid from school.

I feel hopeless. Help me!

hah!! story of my life...

[Ghost14]

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Hareem, it's because you have swag.

[STA]

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that is happened when your household is filled with all boys. abba to abba, abba kay bachay bhi abba. socho socho.

[majesty]

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@STA

that is happened when your household is filled with all boys. abba to abba, abba kay bachay bhi abba. socho socho.

^ sta u like the sayeen song alot na

[majesty]

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@Agirl90

You are their mother, you should be training them. okay, husband you cannot train

haw hayee can’t train husbaandz? yeh ap shaam k akhbaar mein chpwa ley

[Reha]

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I think household rules should be in place...like in peoples' respective rooms they can have whatever they want going on but in common areas it should always be neat and tidy.

Hampers to immediately throw laundry into, hooks behind the doors (although I don't like hooks to be honest but I guess its better to have that than have things end up on the floor), etc really help a lot.

I like X2's YP and MP type approach a lot too.

[cool_iies]

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hmmmm.. i m lucky enough that i have sugghar hasband.he didn't create messups and after his office firstly he keep the things on place.i also tried to orgnize every thing but whith 2 children it always gudmud.he helps me in orgnizing cubets and every thing infact the orgnizing of every thing is his sirdard not mine..

[Twinklestar]

hmmmm.. i m lucky enough that i have sugghar hasband.he didn't create messups and after his office firstly he keep the things on place.i also tried to orgnize every thing but whith 2 children it always gudmud.he helps me in orgnizing cubets and every thing infact the orgnizing of every thing is his sirdard not mine..

What a lucky wife, mA! Wish he could train or shame or hubbies!