Why ME???

Reha, I remember you saying that you're mixed (Punjabi/Karachi/Pakistani/Indian) right? Does your friend know this about you? Either way....it's tactless. You mentioned you like to do themed dinners...............so.................how about a Punjabi cuisine for a themed dinner? And invite all your Punjabi friends over....if that's the group she's having issues with.

Or you know what? Why not invite friends from a variety **of races. Thus setting an example to your friend about being open to meeting people and getting to know them as **individuals.

That's what I learned in multicultural ed class a couple of years ago........the best way to remove prejudices.......is EDUCATION. And experience is the best teacher. So.....time for a party/lesson ;)