Ahhhh now i get it…
You’re welcome 
Re: Love Marriage Ends in Divorce
Funny how people come up with statistics proving love vs arranged marriage rates. Who carried out such surveys here? In a country like Pakistan, it's hard enough to carry out statitics on how many people are malnutritioned so it's absurd to come up with a statistics proving marriage failure rate causes.
The only reason why divorce rate is increasing is simply because women have become more independent and don't need to suck up to their husband and inlaws so much and same goes for men. Nowadays, people can move on after a divorce but about 30-40 years ago, it was much harder. Our society is slowly adapting to some changes, obviously its not as much as the west but still, it's more liberated than what it was years ago. Now people have an OPTION of divorce which they didn't some time back.
so leaving your hubby because he chews with his mouth open is open mindedness.
I think people are more narrow minded now, its me me me, if I dont like ... I dont want it ...
that is why most divorces happen in our society. There was a time when reasons were big, like hubby cheating or abusing the wife. Now a days, if hubby does not have the same music taste, its a reason good enough to leave him.
TLK exactly thats the reason.... so much of narrow mindness in ppl now days. ppl from our parents generation were more giving, more flexible and above all forgiving. but now days the situation is plain pathatic. Hardly you are forgiven for ur mistakes and hardly you ll let go someone 's fault.
You do not have to be in love with your would be husband before you marry him. but yes one thing that i will always want and cannot marry without is the CLICK. I am open for arrange marriage if the click happens.
Re: Love Marriage Ends in Divorce
I THINK love marriages fail because there is less or no respect for spouse. there is a slight hijab and little bit of "haya" between arrange marriages but this has vanished between two ppl who are "IN LOVE" they consider themselves EQUAL. dont get me wrong but i believe both spouses have to give in now and then to make the life easy. my nund and jaith both had love marriages both failed not in divorce but as good as divorce. my sis went for it and ended divorced.
