Why Marriages Fail?

Re: what do u think..what is better...love marrige or arrange

I believe you need ALOT of courage and stemina to do LOVE MARRIAGE and I think being an unexperienced girl I can't recognize any person's ACTUAL behaviour and mannerism, I can only get fascinated by the way he talks to me APPARENTLY. What if I got married with the person of my choice and later I had to bear his abusive lang about me and what if he never gave any value to my self-respect? I don't think there would be any turning back for me after marriage. these fears should be kept in mind while getting into any relationship before marriage because I believe before marriage you can't understand any person completely no matter how close you both seem to be. My exposure about creature called human is NILL and that's why I have lost my trust on LOVE marriage.