I came across this on another forum but it reminded me of a few comments here on GS..
The guy has only been married about a month..
People are so quick to suggest marriage is the answer.. This is what can happen when a person isn’t mature enough or ready..
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The guy looks like a troll or emotionally immature... just look at the responses he got.
Waisay aisi posts kar ke mera nazuk dil na torein.... bahut armaan hain jo puray karnay hain.
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Why marriage isn't the answer to what? Anyhow, as ekumunng mentioned, the guy does seem like he's trolling. I'd have a hard time taking him seriously.
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So many posts on Gubshup about marriage lately.
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^Yes, that’s why I started this 
Ok, the mods had to remove the link to the story..
A young Muslim guy had been moaning for agesss that he wanted a wife. He finally got married and a month down the line he has decided he doesn’t like her, he isn’t really attracted to her (‘she’s average’), doesn’t like the fact that she doesn’t work and she ‘doesn’t bring anything to the table.’
Basically he knew this alll before he married her but still went ahead and did it and now he is wondering whether to ‘get rid’ (his exact words).. This is after one month 
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Can you PM me the link? Not sure why they're not allowing it to be posted here.
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You missed the part where other posters said that his wife buys him clothes and he was happy few days back with his marriage and happily telling everyone. Also he wrote that he has no job.
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^Oh yeah, her 'good point' was that she buys him clothes lol
I forgot he doesn't have a job (so why is he complaining that she doesn't have one??)..
Pmed you the link PCG..
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n PM me too
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^Done..
If anyone else wants to read the original story google 'salams i feel like i want i doverce my wife' (with auto correct off :D)
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That is sad Deeba 
I would also be interested to read it. Marriage is not the answer but Love is the answer. No point in marrying someone you don’t think you can fall in love with, have some affection for because if someone marries just for convenience of the families how long will that last? Maybe as long as the families are around. If it is based on attraction, how long will it last? Maybe as long as it takes for the skin to wrinkle for the looks to fade. I do not think that is true love. A little extreme but this is true love. True love very hard to find… - YouTube Love is the answer http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z_eAzaTquN8
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^Done..
If anyone else wants to read the original story google 'salams i feel like i want i doverce my wife' (with auto correct off :D)
doverce...sounds like a combination of dove and force. Dove meaning surrender and force meaning to push his wife away.
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Mutah
Hear Hear !
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It seems like a troll thread at ummah dot com. I never go to that site what a waste . I may have my beef against desi guys but I doubt any Muslim really thinks like that.
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People need to understand that life isn't all happy ever after when you get married - problems or issues you have before a marriage are only going to get carried into a marriage. You can't expect your husband/wife to be magic and fix everything for you just because you married them.
Argh.
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Can anyone share the link with me as well?
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Yea..you cite a troll thread at another site to make a point....great!
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^What is your problem? If it bothers you why bother replying here at all? 
And just because someone calls another poster a troll it doesn’t necessarily mean they are one..
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I wouldn't put it past our "muslim" community to have raised a failure like the one who opened that thread. It's not likely, but...have you seen some of these muslim guys now really? Comon. I wouldn't be THAT surprised, but I sure would be very disappointed if he is real.