Re: Why make Dua when everything is pre written??
Peace princessnadia87
When the marriage happens and it is an event past tense then we know it was qadr … the method and means of getting there is not important. Except that we should recognise that if the journey to that point has been rough then we made it rough on ourselves - either the parents or the girl … and if the journey was smooth almost effortless then we know that journey was closer to how we were expected to react to each situation in that process of actuality … Qadr is like shooting an arrow then slowing down time then you run up to the arrow and you can see it suspended in air you can see it’s direction …
Again we use du’a to change our fate … but the real purpose of du’a is the state of asking from Allah (SWT) it removes us of pride to be humbled before Him …