Peoples this is a total arranged marriage scenario lol - its not a dating one or like as if I can even SHOW my desperation in anyway.
I am just being overly dramatic!
The guy I want - he ticks every box and in the 2 short times ive spoken to him I want his family to say yes to getting to know eachother more.
The that wants me - ticks very few boxes, I am not attracted to him and I dont like talking to him.
It wasnt like I can actually even be that desperate in this situation.
This post was a burst of frustration!
Really thought it was the dating scenario :P One question, though. The guy who likes you, what did he see in you that made him like you? Are you talkative or quiet and shy that he likes you? Sorry if this is muddling
I don't know why he likes me - but his initial words were ' good balance between eastern and western values and fun to talk to' thats all I can go on. I was definitely not shy and pretty talkative.
I have ended it with him and he seems pretty upset about it, I feel bad :(
I don't know why he likes me - but his initial words were ' good balance between eastern and western values and fun to talk to' thats all I can go on. I was definitely not shy and pretty talkative.
I have ended it with him and he seems pretty upset about it, I feel bad :(
Don't feel bad. It was your choice because he wasn't your type so you don't need to beat yourself up. Now, just focus on the guy you want. Maybe he likes quiet girls if you were chirpy with him?
we chase people who ignore us and ignore people who adore us…
its my life story as well…
i rejected the guy who really used to like me… and accepted that one who was not serious at all in me … after so many years i ahve realized my mistake
i think when we reject people we never think about their feelings but when we are rejected then we realize how it feels to be rejected… to bas yeh tit for tat hota hai shayad… :sid:
UFF! I want to pull your hair so bad!! Like my daddi would if I was being sillies!
Im not saying don't care, its natural to give a damn, but khuday de vastay do something else too. Do lots of other things too. Start living your whole life instead waiting your whole life!
You live in London yes? SO much to do! Get out of the house!
… after so many years i ahve realized my mistake 
Nice suggestion! :k:
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