Re: Why is'nt there a secular Islamic country
Good for you.. I stayed in US for quite a number of years and am back in my home country-India. While I was in US, I had met a lot of desis who used to profess loyalty to their country though they have stayed in US for a number of generations...
for a number of generations? the vast majority of Pakistani origin folks in US is first or send gen, if u met a lot of desis who were third gen, then I am impressed. in my experience, a third generation person cares as much about his ancestral land as curiosity allows, nothing more. In the cases I have seen this in UK, these were illiterate families who moved to UK, lived in desi ghettos, and never integrated well, which is an unfortunate situation.
Where do I go to get this info... I came here and found none :) . I see many who spew venom...
seek and you shall find..we can always find what we are looking for, have you been looking for that info? you dont have to answer, but please be honest with yourself. It is far easier to make snide comments, pick up on real issues in pakistan which btw no one is arguing the existence of, and rub it in people's faces. I have been on this site for years and have seen the same pattern repeat. So the question to you is, how do you interact with people where they know you are interested in a real dialogue and discussion with mutual respect rather then a pissing contest. as far as the venom spewing types, i ignore thm, and i suggest you do as well, because if you are going on one extreme to counter their extreme, you end up alienating sensible people who you would have enjoyed great interactions with. Ask some of the sensible folks about this info, but if the approach starts with a critical accusatory manner then people who otherwise would have engaged see that as a futile exercise and not even bother to interact. Upto you whether any of what I am saying resonates with you or not, I just thought I would state it rather than lose the few opportunities that indiand and pakistanis have for direct interaction.
I say few because it is true, the overwhelming population of India and Pakistan have never had direct interactions with someone from the other side. It amazes me that the overwhelming majority of people who have never had interactions, when they do, it is almost always a positive one. If people like us who are educated, have been outside our neck of the woods i.e. south asia and should be more open, if we cant have a reasonable discourse, fiocusing on positives, and handling negatives in a sensible manner, how can we ever expect the masses in the two countries to be able to do that, and if they cant do that, it is far easier for any powers that me to use the other side as a bogeyman to keep their own grip on power.
just a few thoughts amigo.
oh and for a short answer, start with human rights groups in Pakistan, they are very active and the people in their rallies etc are Pakistanis :)