it’s so fun with boyfriend and it gets so boring when the same boyfriend becomes ur husband?when BF,that man wants to have all the fun with you,i mean shopping,driving,watching movies bla bla,and he does not want to have that fun when he is ur husband? its just a general observation…but why is that?
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i no ryt!!! men alwyz do dis nd dat wid gurlz bt aftr marige dey r irrsponsible!!!
hun cuz mayb itz less pressure wen itz jst bf nd wen itz hsbnd itz mre pressure nd so itz lyk dat
mstly tho i dunno lol
Or maybe, they have a chance of losing u as a gf so make more of an effort, and take wives for granted o she'll b happy as she is lol
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With status of relationship changes the nature of relationship 
Marriage is not simply and only about romance and all that lovey doveyness. It is a complete package, a bag and baggage of responsibilities, a knot tied with the whole family as much as with the guy. If you leave your parental home with the acknowledgement of all of this, and your readiness to assimilate, you will end up with less complaints and dissatisfaction after the marriage, if not anything else.
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but y that spark ends?i mean y the need to enjoy and have fun with that same girl ends?y does going out together or shopping feels more like a responsibility rather than a fun?
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prolly cuz ur borin lolzzz
i mena lyk myb u cud lk at urself? lyk wuts da reson?
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cute ainee - having a gf is fun while having a wife is scary and one would choose fun with no strings attached
one fine day you realize im bored of my gf, you can call her, dump her and find a new one. wife on the other hand, not so easy.
your question is not hard to answer
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gf bcom wyf....she become nagging and problem..........
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but y that spark ends?i mean y the need to enjoy and have fun with that same girl ends?y does going out together or shopping feels more like a responsibility rather than a fun?
human psychology.
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Men who are hunters and conquerors by nature , Once they have achieved their goal the fun ends. For them after the hunt or conquest is over it is job of the hunted or conquered to keep them interested and entertained.
P.S: All men are not like that , so do not kill me for saying that. :D
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life without any responsibility is always fun...having a wife and the family is a big responsibility and that's why, according to you, it becomes 'boring'!.
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Lower your expectations of people, seriously make that your motto from now on. Such is life. Just steal the plastic from him and go shopping on your own......as opposed to dragging his tortured boothi around in every store....you'd get more accomplished with personal shopping if you go by yourself. Watch the movie on your own or with someone else. He'll probably pay more attention when you're not around much...and there'll come a time when even that game will get old.
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completely agree lol
Men who are hunters and conquerors by nature , Once they have achieved their goal the fun ends. For them after the hunt or conquest is over it is job of the hunted or conquered to keep them interested and entertained.
P.S: All men are not like that , so do not kill me for saying that. :D
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Prolly cuz he's doing the shoppinng and the fun stuff with some other girl (that you don't know of)....and so he can't pay attention to you no more....too much work. Lower your expectations of people, seriously make that your motto from now on. Such is life. Just steal the plastic from him and go shopping on your own......as opposed to **dragging his tortured boothi around **in every store....you'd get more accomplished with personal shopping if you go by yourself.
did u mean drag his ass around??
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Peace CA,
it is ok. you may need to create some fantasies to keep alive your past romance in present.
my second thought suggest that he might be bored with you and i saw many people where gf and bf charm end after marriage and real life problem make them uncomfortable.
you may need to review your behavior and find out what you used to do when you were GF of your BF and try to reproduce same behavior. it may work. and please keep update us.
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did u mean drag his ass around??
ass ho ya boothi....in the guy's case....it's one and the same.
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only if they are named butt 
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LOL…I’ll admit that made me laugh. I needed that…it’s been a rough day and I feel more on edge. Thank you, Nomi.
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GIDSA’S posts FTW
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That indeed is an accomplishment 