why is that?????

Re: why is that???

I read something about cheating spouses a while back and it was actually quite enlightening. Cheating is inexcusable…however its nice to know why it usually happens. These internet chatters he seems to be a different person with…what do they talk about? Have you seen what they discuss? Most of the time, people dont cheat because their spouses arent hot enough…its usually because they’re emotionally not getting what they want. Again, NOT an excuse…just something to think about for you. Meena, look at what these girls are offering him and take a cue. Maybe he feels you will not identify or understand the things that make him happy. Its possible he doesnt think you will be able to give him the same excitement other women can. Its important to show him you’re much more than just his wife and mother of his kids. You’re a woman…a woman who has emotional needs of her own.

Its possible that neither one of you is a bad person but together you rub each other the wrong way. He needs to see a fun, light hearted and different side of you.

Your kids need you…no doubt about that. But go online and look for opportunities to work for a company from home…or if that is not possible then start a home based business. Think, use your head and find something you have a passion and talent for.

And answer the above questions…for your sake.