Re: why is she so bitter?
Sorry to say Ms Tabussum, you have again described her relationship with others, rather than yourself,
a better way to put it would be My Mom had grandchildren before She had me!!!
**and not as you put it: "before I was even concieved " **
This sends a clear signal that it is all about you!
*Parents and children do have an age difference always, old age children a more precious. I am sure She adores you. *
*You seem to be hung up on the big generation gap...:( *