Why is it that

Lifestyle Relationships
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when you finally start searching for love, you face with more and more rejections and feel like there is no one left for you?

The more needy you are, the more snubs and other unwelcoming gestures you have to face.

Though very few people admit it as they link it with their ego, but it happens to most youngsters in Pakistan.

Is it becoz of Pakistani culture? or is it our perverted attitudes towards love that keeps us away from it for most part of our lives?

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Sorry I can't help, I've never been rejected, but maybe thats because I'm uber hawt

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Usually the more you go looking for love, the more you WON'T find.

Some of my friends that are really desperate are always getting rejected. STOP looking for love. It will happen when it's meant to happen.

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1) Maybe you feel there are "more rejections" because when you go out on an active search for love.....it may come across like you're trying too hard....and that turns people off. People can sense when you're being natural and when you're being desperate. What is so wrong with being single for a while and being confident with whom you are as an individual? If anything, that's an attractive quality that tends to draw others to you.

2) Human nature. Clingy/needy/chipkoo is off-putting. Needy is not attractive and it can be suffocating for the person on the receiving end. If you notice that you're receiving more snubs....then that's a start....take that observation to change your behavior and attitude.

3) How do you connect Pakistani culture and perverted attitudes to love? Maybe the individual is on a desperate search for love because something is lacking in their life....in their interactions with their family. Perhaps it is a self-esteem problem. Unrealistic perceptions can either make one chase after love or turn away from it. Turn way from it for most of our lives? That's an odd assumption....while it may apply to some individuals...you can't say so for every single person.

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you people make it sound like 'love' actually exists......i am so disappointed in this media conditioning...

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Do all the women on the planet a favour, infact do the whole human race a favour. Don't get married and don't reproduce. Stop putting a downer on love, it's real, it's out there, your just too bitter to see it.

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how exactly would that be a favour ? could u explain a little?

talk about bitterness…:rolleyes:

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Patience and dicipline are the key to finding love. Good luck.

Just be yourself and you will find someone, theres always someone for someone... I have known many a solitary hunter find solace in a mate so humans are no exception.

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u dont have to be in love to get married ..

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^ True but then marriage without love is a definate Failure…

Without love a political marraige wont last, though some such marraiges can spring love if it dont blossom then the games over… move on. :smack:

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i dont mean that u dont have any sort of liking on that relationship .. love is a very deep emotion .. with alot of meaning .. i bet you alot of people who say 'we're in love' dont even know what it means ..

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Aah I get what you mean now. Yes your right in that aspect, very true.

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This :k: