even if he’s simple in the looks department he thinks “i’m totally hotstuff” regardless of whether he’s overweight or out of shape
when most women look in the mirror, even if she’s beautiful, she sees everything she needs to improve, her arms are too fat, or her thighs need to be toned even if they are pretty thin, her nose is too small or big or long
I’ve come across guys whose mothers have always told them they’re ‘so fair’ when they just have a normal/average skintone and ‘so handsome’ again when they’re just really average looking whilst their sisters are hardly ever told they’re pretty in case they get a big head
I actually agree with that, many of these desi turds in dire needs of a make over with hanging bellies are almost always living in a lala land thinking they're hot stuff. When they dont get any attention from females, they start calling them arrogant and full of themselves.
and then those not so hot guys that are out of shape expect women to always be hot for them and if they aren’t exactly of supermodel looks then the out of shape guys are so quick to put them down…
then we wonder why there are some women that have eating disorders
then we wonder why there are some women that have eating disorders
Women have disorders because of the Adriana Limas and Gisele Bundchens, not because some fat guy expects them to have an hourglass figure. Women are insecure by nature and have image issues.
Women have disorders because of the Adriana Limas and Gisele Bundchens, not because some fat guy expects them to have an hourglass figure. Women are insecure by nature and have image issues.
and how you know for the fact that angels never get any surgery done???? may be they were if not equal, then more in complex of them being perfect.
I dont look in the mirror often… It’s just terrible becuase I know the damage.
It looks a lot worse now too because the Babies have had thier heads shaved and I just had to put myself through the same ordeal too… oh well at least I am happy with life and damn proud of my battered looks.
I remeber my lovely Wife once told me that the reason she found me so devilishly attractive at the time was becuase I lacked the vanity of other chaps… and also becuase the right side of me face is very much a story in skin. Allah ka shukkar I am gifted with a charming Wife and I am happy with her and she is happy with me… she sometimes used to say that she wished she had lighter skin but I told her that I liked the way she was… I would not want her any different and she I am sure does not mind me either.
There's an expectation for women to look good. So women have higher standards to live up to. A man sees himself as having met the standards cause the standard is so low.
It's like saying, when a woman looks at her bank statement, she thinks I'm pretty well off, but when man looks at it, he thinks I don't make anything. This is of course grossly generalized, but the idea is the same.
Women have disorders because of the Adriana Limas and Gisele Bundchens, not because some fat guy expects them to have an hourglass figure. Women are insecure by nature and have image issues.
i don't think women are born insecure. as a woman goes through life, isn't it b/c some men expect their future wives to be at that level of beauty of supermodels, it's an unrealistic, unhealthy way of looking at a normal woman.
CEO1, maybe i do :p but isn't it true though, i've never seen a man putting himself down when he sees himself.
CEO1, maybe i do :p but isn't it true though, i've never seen a man putting himself down when he sees himself.
Do you spy on men talking to the mirror? I think you're right to a certain extent as it is a confidence thing to look at yourself and proclaim to be the best.
Or you just love looking at yourself.
when i look myself in the mirror i praise the lord that he made my face normal...two eyes that can see, one nose that can small etc. i never think i am handsome. on the contrary, i tell myself that i not the ugliest person on this planet earth so i thank God for that :D
Most women are too worried of looks and most men do not care.
Besides OP has no idea what she is talking about. How does she know what men think about when they face mirror?
For her education:
Men never care what they look like ENOUGH to worry about. Their main concern is to look presentable and decent. And they know a lot of women will still find them attractive for their personalities and gesture and not how fat or slim they are.
If any man agrees with what OP says, he is a geek.