Why is it so easy for people to tell others off?

[AhmedFayyaz]

Re: Why is it so easy for people to tell others off?

@worldxi

So I have always been tempted to try alcohol and plan to do so when going out for a friend’s birthday tomorrow night. A mutual friend is always telling me off about how its too much, it goes against our religion etc etc. I am not particularly religious (eat non-halal, don’t pray) and it bothers me when somebody starts lecturing me about it or passes judgmental comments especially when that person herself isn’t big on religion, is involved in a sexual relationship and does drugs. I have never judged her commented saying its wrong or how that makes her a terrible person because it is her life, her business. Would love some advice on how to deal with her in a polite manner as I hate confrontations. Cheers!

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