Re: Why is he so indifferent?
If you want someone to listen to you, then talk to friends and family. I feel weird telling nyone and I do note ant to stress them out… so I have started blogging. It helps a lot. It gets the frustration out and you can just move on.
However, if you really want to share something with hubby, then keep feelings and negativity out of it. Say everything in a very objective manner. Even if something is bothering me, I tell hubby with a smile on my face now… and I only tell him the facts. I may add “it bothered me a little but after talking to you, I feel much better.”
IMO, men are natural fixers and women are talkers. Women feel better by talking about it but men tend to fix the problem. Thus, he wants to tell his parents. My hubby always tell me, “I will talk to them.” However, I ask him nicely not to. If he insists, I tell him that it will create conflict for no reason but its unto him.
Perhaps, you can try to find another way to let it out w/o effecting ur relationship. I would constantly fight with him before but I find these few changes are helping me and our relationship a lot.
I agree 100%.. However, if you share with people you know, please be careful. Makesure you can trust them.