Thumbs up to everything you said; but the problem is, it’s much easier said than done.
Ignoring the first few times is managable, but when it occurs over a period of time, fustration builds and hence the need to vent. I agree with the majority of posters here though…venting TO the husband is just not going to cut it. OP, you’re probably more likely to be ‘heard’ or supported from family members or friends. If all you want is to be listened-to, start making new friends. Building a social circle will also help keep your mind away from your troubles.