WHY guys are like this?

why do guys stare at girls ? and girls dont do it…maybe a minority but majority of girls dont.

guys annoy me…moms gone pak and i had to go to a shop alone…its an asian shop…anyway, u go in there and ALL the guys start staring…like they’ve never seen a girl before…I remember once I went with mom, there was a worker there who started singing “tujhe dekha toh…” when he saw me. what a joker. anyway, he was looking as well…I really felt like slapping him. anyway, I ignored him and tried to get out of the shop asap.

its a big shop so theres loads of workers there..anyway, 2 days ago I had to go again cuz dad was busy. this time i had to go alone…and the idiot guys were staring again…then one of them who was standing outside by the mangos…he started singing a song when I went past. I just ignored him again. went into the shop and even the guys there stare…even some of the customers.

its irritating :frowning: you cant even buy something properly when people stare like that…at least I cant…i jsut want to get out.

why do guys do this? dont they know it totally puts a girl off? I have no respect at all for guys who stare like that or try to flirt by singing a song…i mean come on, who do they think they are? shah rukh khan ? :rolleyes:

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It's birmingham guys. I never heard any of my London friends start singing at girls....

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Thats guys for it. No matter how much we hate it or get annoyed its not going to change. And i know Desi guys do it way more than other guys.

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Perhaps they stare because you wear funny clothes?
or funny make up?
shoes perhaps?

or perhaps its all in your mind?

Perhaps they were looking at some one behind you?

:hoonh:

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its pakistani guys :rolleyes:

although I must say…this week we had a locum pharmacist in. he was really good looking…but even he stared and I couldnt work properly :frowning: and I just looked the other way for a while…when I started work again…I could still tell he’s looking from the side…cuz he was sitting down and relaxing whilst we had to do the work :disgust:

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waise ehmm I hate to bring this. But pakistani girls tend to stare aswell.
Even hijaabji ones :hehe:

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Is that the excuse you use when you get caught staring at someone :smiley:

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I just wear normal clothes…dont wear makeup much…just wear normal shoes :rolleyes:

I even wear hijab…shouldnt that be enough for them NOT to look? anyway…the other day I had to go post office from work…i walked past a bus stop and there was an asian guy waiting there (I couldnt tell if he’s indian or paki)…anyways as I walked past he says “Asalamalaikum” in a flirty way. I didnt answer him :rolleyes:

whilst driving in the hot weather and having window open…in a traffic queue ive had this one guy say to me “you’ve got a really nice car” etc. etc. :rolleyes: wot a joker…

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I am not like one of stupid guys.. honestly,im totally against those kinda ppl. when ever i see guys who r tryin to be like shahrukh khan infront of a girl or tryin to flirt wid her.. i just tend to give em a real dirty look... if u ask me.. i am not like those nasty ppl; if i think a girl is nice looking i usually just go up to her and try to talk to her..(IF she is NOT desi) ... and if dat girl is desi or Pakistan then i just put my eyes down and leave dat spot. thats how i am. lots of ppl dont agree wid me when it comes to dis kinda stuff but i do wot i think its right.

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I cant stare …if I have to talk to a guy (eg at work) I look away mostly…cuz they usually get the wrong idea…thats how it seems to me.

I NEVER look at guys more than once…because I know they get the wrong idea…and start thinking I like them or something…

and then at work sometimes u get the old guys who come into the pharmacy…and they try to flirt…u know we have to confirm the address before we give out any medicine…this 50 soemthing english man…I say to him “whats ur address?” and he says to my colleague and another patient in the pharmacy “she’s cheeky she is…she wants to know where I live” wot an idiot :rolleyes: why would i want to know where a buddha lives :rotfl:

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I can swear on my life I havent EVER stared at any person :stuck_out_tongue:

It s not my style plus I dont like it when people stare at me

Its all about etiquette :biggthumb

no I just like teasing Impuls thats all :hehe:

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so seems like uve been with many girls :rolleyes:

i mean desis as well as non desis… ?

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Oh really DP…Never say never…I really don’t believe a guy when he says that :slight_smile:

You know my hubby says that to me and i’m like you’re a liar cuz you kept staring at me when you saw me for the first time :hehe: Its not like a person never does it.

If you find someone attractive you tend to look once but some ppl just dont give up and have to stare you down :rolleyes:

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nope… dats not exactly true. i have asked alot of non desi girls but never got a change to go out wid em… may be i am not too good in gettin those girls… but yes i have been wid alot of desi girls…

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exactly, i am NOT like one of those who just like to share every single nice lookin girl… if i think a girl is nice.. den i just go up to her and try to start a converstation… (i am talkin abt non desi girls).. and wid desi girl .. i dont even give a try esp. if i see em in da desi grocery stores. if they are in da concert n stuff .. then i just give it a try.

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Perhaps I m old fashioned or something, but I do believe that pairs are made in heaven. I dont like to look at other girls because I think it isnt fair towards your (future sign. other) I will only look at one person when the time is right. Alot of people have said that I am a dreamer :smiley:

Waise I dont mind If some one doesnt believe me. :smiley: I know myself very well and I have my principals :nahnah:

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:rotfl:

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I have alot of respect for you for that :slight_smile:

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thanks, I actually thought you lot will start laughing :slight_smile:

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waise you shouldnt mind guys. It is true, men have more imperfections then women.