Why girls want to delay marriage so much?

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Re: Why girls want to delay marriage so much?

@Sara516

ok in all seriousness…not that older women won’t end up with terrible guys and cannot be victims of abuse… but when you’re older and/or NOT desperate to get hitched, it’s easier for someone who’s educated (either school or real world) to spot red flags in a person/family, or determine if you’re compatible with someone. plus when you’re serious about education, you tend to have goals that don’t revolve around getting married.

It’s sad when young girls are desperate to get married..

This! Very well said :k:

I know it’s an understood thing that one day we all (should) get married… But I never understood why girls are always in such a rush to get married. This isn’t the old days where girls get married and stay at home to cook, clean, take care of the kids and their MIL.. Today we’re raised to be independent and live our lives as individuals.

There’s tons of horror stories of girls that were married off at a young age, simply due to the desperate need to get married “before you’re 30” that end up in horrible situations, and none of the factors that should actually be considered are taken into consideration… Ok maybe not always but over all

I, personally, think everyone should have the right to become independent and be able to support them selves, with out having to reply on their spouse.