Why girls are so picky?

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re: Why girls are so picky?

@Hassan007

Seriously man!

Most guys only have two requirements for a woman:

1. She’s attractive
2. She has a good personality
   For the most part, that is basically it.

Women on the otherhand are far different creatures.
Their list of requirements may look something like this:

1. He has to be tall and handsome
2. He must have a job - Ok Job is Important
3. He must have a car
4. He must have good education (college degree)
5. He must be romantic
6. He must be funny
7. He must have an income above $-------?
8. He needs to be well dressed
9. He must have his own apartment or house
10. He must have a muscular body
11. He must like taking me out to places
12. …etc. (the list can literally go on and on)

Why are women this way?
A woman’s love seems far more conditional than a man’s love.
Most men (at least myself and friends included) are willing to look past all the minor details and we’ll accept a woman for who she is and we won’t judge her because she’s poor, or doesn’t have a car, etc.

Unfortunately, most women I’ve run into don’t think the same way. They keep themselves on a high pedestal and act as if man should bow down and kiss their stinky feet.
No thanks, I want a REAL woman, not a materialistic needy leech!

Taken from: Why are girls so damn picky when it comes to men? - Yahoo! Answers

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My story.

you have basically summarized a lot of points into just 2 points. Very smart
your point 1 i.e shes attractive consists of sub points and means

1. she is beautiful, pretty
2. shes good heighted
3. she has a sleek figure
4. she should not be fat
5. she should not be skinny
6. she should have a pointed thin nose
7. she has a silky hair with good volume
8. she should be Fair ( and in Pakistan fair for girls means literally being white like a cow’s milk.)
9. she has a salon like pedicured feet and manicured hands

okay and your 2nd point i.e has a good personality translates into:

1. she is well dressed
2. she respects elders.
3. she is soft spoken.
4. she can interact on different levels to different people.
5. she is good natured in general.
6. she carries herself well.
7. she has a soft heart for your relatives, friends.
8. she has a soft heart for the poor and helps them around.
9. she is well educated
10. she has a nice taste to decorate home
11. she has good administrative and management skills to run the house.
12. she is patient.
13. she is well rounded person.

so well, you see your 2 points are the summary of the total 22 points.
so this shows guys are much more picky than the girls.

and as for girls being picky, if they see the income level and education level of the guy this doesn’t ean they are picky but they are being practical. it is very much practical and alright to see this in a guy as he has to support his home, his wife, his kids, his parents and siblings to in some cases. so it is very much logical to see the income level and education level of the guy from the perspective of economics.

for all other points mentioned like tall, handsome, muscular body etc etc are not close to reality. i agree some girls do reject proposals on these basis but those are very low in numbers and hence this can not be generalized for all girls.