See you’re the exception here. You didn’t go into the marriage for the sake of getting married, and you knew exactly what you were getting into. However, a lot of the times what is seen is well, ammi abu said that this guy is good enough for me, I’ll get married to him. Even if there is a period of engagement, where the couple by some miracle is allowed to talk, by themselves and are not watched over by 19839638946 family members when that happens, there is no real conversation about what to expect when they do get married. The real important issues are never or hardly discussed.
